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Who Do You Want To Be This Christmas?
What kind of person do you want to be this Christmas? You get to choose!
Is It Important to you to be Healthy?
How important is your health to you? You might be surprised to discover how many things are more important to you than excellent health.
A Different Kind of New Year's Resolution
This year, make two New Year's Resolution lists - one for your external goals and one for who you want to be.
"I Just Want to Explain" - Explaining as a Form of Control
What happens when you try to explain yourself to someone who is attacking and blaming? Does it EVER work? Discover how else to communicate.
What Is Emotional Dependency?
Are you emotionally dependent? Use this checklist to find out, and discover how you can attain emotional freedom.
Can't Say
Are you afraid to say "no" to others? Discover where you got this fear and how to move into personal power and emotional freedom.
Safety With an Open Heart
While you might believe that keeping your heart closed is the only way to feel safe, there is a far better way of feeling safe.
Heartbreak
Discover how the heartbreak of your childhood causes emotional and physical problems today, and what you can do to heal.
When Someone Rejects You, Who Are They Rejecting?
Discover the huge difference between being rejected for your wounded self or for your core Self, and begin to learn to manage rejection.
Healing Emotional Dependency
Are you tired of tap dancing as fast as you can to get the love, attention and approval that you believe you need to be okay? Learn how to move beyond emotional dependency and into personal power and emotional freedom.
Healing Love and Approval Addiction
You CAN heal from love and approval addiction! Discover if you are love and approval addicted and begin to understand how to heal this.
Gaining Others' Respect
Are you distressed about how often others are disrespectful to you? Discover why this may be happening and what you can do about it.
How Do You Define Success?
Our society is way off track about what is regarded as success. Discover how you define success and if your definition is serving you well.
Addiction to Spending
Discover what might be fueling an addiction to spending, or any other addiction, and how you can heal from all addictions.
Addictions: Talking as a Form of Resistance
Many people have discovered talking as way to avoid being invaded, controlled, or rejected by others. Yet this addiction, as well as many others, being a form of self-abandonment, leads to much suffering.
The Heart of Healing
There is ONE vital choice that you can make that leads to healing rather than to suffering. Discover that powerful choice in this article.
Core Sadness vs. Wounded Sadness
Discover the vast difference between core sadness and wounded sadness, and what causes each.
Addiction to Distractions
Some addictions are obvious, like food, drugs, and alcohol. Some addictions are subtle, and the addiction to distractions is one of these.
Does Crying Make you Feel Better?
Discover that some crying makes you feel better, while other crying doesn't, or may even make you feel worse.
Do You Get Frustrated With Others?
Do you believe that your frustration with others is being caused by them? Discover the real reason for frustration.
The Challenge of Accepting Our Helplessness Over Others
What do you do when you feel helpless over another's choices? What is the result? Are you happy with how you manage this feeling?
Food That Harms, Food that Heals
The food industry, drug companies, and insurance companies are intricately tied up in why we have a health care crisis.
The Secret to Emotional Healing
Are you ready to heal your anxiety, depression, anger, and relationship problems, and experience emotional freedom? Discover the secret to deep emotional healing!
Am I in a Healthy Relationship?
Are you wondering if you are in a healthy relationship or even what constitutes a healthy relationship for you?
Life's One Achievable Goal
We all have many goals in life, and we may achieve some of them and not others. But there is one primary goal that is not only achievable, but is the very reason you are here on the planet.
The Relationship Trap:
Do you sometimes feel trapped, knowing that your partner is going to blame you, when your partner says "Let's Talk"? Do you give in or get angry and withdraw because you don't know what else to do?
"Why Are My Partners Always Needy?"
If you have the experience of always meeting needy or controlling people, it is likely because you are also needy and controlling and don't realize it.
"Why Won't my Partner Have Sex With Me?"
Are you wondering why your partner doesn't want to have sex with you? This article may provide the answer for you.
Are You Caring or Caretaking?
Do you sometimes give to another and then wonder why your giving is so unappreciated? Discover how much your intent affects the interaction.
"I Want to Love But I Can't Give Up Control"
Are there fears in the way of keeping your heart open to loving? You CAN learn how to feel safe enough to open your heart and share your love.
The ONE Major Cause of Relationship Problems!
What if you could discover the ONE major cause of your relationship problems and it was something that you could do something about? Would you do it?
Lying as a Form of Control
Did you learn to lie as a child to protect yourself from rejection? Are you still using this form of control, which is undermining your self-esteem? Discover how to heal lying.
What is Emotional Freedom?
Are you choosing emotional dependency or emotional freedom? Discover the secret of attaining emotional freedom!
How To Lose Weight as an Older Woman
Here is my personal formula for maintaining my weight and health as an older woman.
Body Image Stress - Aging Insecurities and Self-Image
Are you fearful that signs of aging are going to turn off the right person? Discover what to do about this in this article.
Healing the Need for Others' Approval
Discover why much of the time repeating positive affirmations doesn't work to heal your low self-esteem and need for others' approval, and what does work.
Speaking Your Truth When it's Hard
How often to you withhold your truth from someone important to you because you are afraid of their anger? Discover what caring about yourself looks like in this situation.
Needs vs. Neediness
Have you wondered about the difference between legitimate needs and neediness?
What Will They Think? - Love and Approval Addiction
Are you love and approval addicted? Are you constantly worried about what others think of your looks and/or performance?
Moving Beyond Emotional Dependency
Discover the choice you can make to move out of emotional dependency and into emotional freedom.
The Power of Tears
Discover the difference between victim pain and authentic pain and how expressing your authentic tears can open you to joy.
The Art of Manifestation: When It Is Loving to Be Controlling
Is it ever loving to be controlling? Yes! Discover the kind of controlling that is loving and leads to manifesting what you want in life.
Do You Avoid Failure Like the Plague?
What are you sacrificing by focusing on avoiding mistakes and failure, rather than on learning and growth? Fun? Joy? Love? Success?
Resistance to Gratitude: Why Isn't The Law of Attraction Working for Me?
Do you find yourself resistant to expressing gratitude for what you have? Are you stuck in your ability to manifest what you want?
Law of Attraction: The Importance of Feeling Good
Do you wonder why the Law of Attraction doesn't seem to be working for you?
Relationships:
Are you in a relationship where you believe that you are open and your partner is closed? Read on!
Beyond Misery Junk!
Are you ready to move beyond misery? Learn about the junk that may be causing your misery.
"There's Too Much To Do"
Do you ever feel stressed that there will never be enough time to get everything done? Listen to a conversation I had with my spiritual Guidance about this.
Enmeshed Parenting
Are you an enmeshed parent? Discover if you are and what you can begin to do about it in this article.
Addiction to Gossip
Are you addicted to gossiping about others or do you know others who gossip? Discover the underlying cause of gossiping.
Healing Envy
Do you sometimes find yourself feeling envy for what another has or does rather than feeling happy for them?
Fear of Anger - Yours and Others
Does your own and others' anger terrify you? Discover how to move beyond your fear of anger.
The Happiness Choice
Do you know what major choice you can make that creates either happiness or misery? Discover that choice in this article!
"What Are They Thinking About Me?"
How would you feel and what would you do differently in your life if you gave up worrying about what others think of you - if you gave up your illusion of control over others' feelings and thoughts?
The Crazymaking Trap: Proving Your Worth Over and Over
Are you stuck in a trap trying over and over to prove your worth? Are you stuck making another person your Higher Power? You CAN get out of this crazymaking trap!
When Should You Take It Personally?
There are times when it is very important to not take another's behavior personally, and times when it is personal. Learn the difference in this article.
Taking the Risk of Loving
If you feel some emptiness in your life, it is likely because you are allowing fear of loss to stop you from loving fully.
Do You Feel Loved or Unloved?
We all need to feel loved, but often we don't - both within ourselves and with others. Discover what you need to feel loved.
When You Feel Hurt By Your Partner
This article explores two kinds of relationship hurt - hurt that comes from another's uncaring behavior, and hurt that comes from the lies we may tell ourselves about the other person.
Relationships and Emotional Connection
Do you want emotional connection but can't seem to create it in your relationships? Learn how in this article!
Five Secrets to Weight Loss
After struggling with my weight for years, I discovered 5 secrets to weight loss that have worked for me for many years.
Do You REALLY Want to Lose Weight?
You say you really want to lose weight, yet either you don't lose it or you lose it only to gain it back. Discover the underlying cause of this and what you can do to permanently lose weight.
"If I'm Perfect, No One Will Reject Me" - Healing Perfectionism
Discover the 3 big false beliefs that lead to the burden of perfectionism, and the truth that heals these beliefs.
Holding Your Heart Through Sadness and Heartbreak
When you learn how to hold your heart with love and compassion, you will discover that you can feel peaceful and even alive and passionate about your life in the midst of the pain of life.
Self-Validation - How to Validate Yourself
Do you now how to validate yourself or are you dependent for your sense of worth on others approval and validation? Learn how now!
The Need for Touch
Learn how important it is to be touched with love rather than with neediness.
Are You and Your Partner Hurting Each Other?
You and your partner might be hurting each other without realizing how and why you are doing this.
Do You Believe What You Perceive?
If you want to change your feelings and your experience of life, then change your state of mind.
The Law of Attraction - It's About Frequency
Like does attract like, so focus on keeping your frequency high and you will manifest your dreams!
Are You Making These 4 Mistakes?
Discover the 4 mistakes you might be making that are causing your life and relationships to not work in the way you want.
Relationships: Do You Have the Same Conflicts Over and Over?
Discover why sometimes it is easy to resolve conflicts and other times it is impossible.
Nothing Has Meaning Without Love and Connection
Discover a major cause of depression and how you can begin to heal it - today!
Trying to Control Makes Us Miserable
Are you aware that trying to control what you can't control makes you feel anxious and unhappy?
Americans: More Self-Centered… and More Lonely
I find the research very interesting that says that the more self-centered we are, the lonelier we are.
Others Treat Us The Way We Treat Ourselves
Discover how to love the unlovable in yourself and transform how others treat you.
The Myth of Explaining and Defending
Do you believe that explaining and defending will convince the other person to see things your way? Has this ever worked?
"I Don't Deserve to be Loved"
If you believe that you don't deserve to be loved, this article is for you.
5 Reasons Why You Might Want to End Your Relationship
If you are considering ending your relationship, you might want to read this article.
Relationships: Attract at Your Common Level of Self-Love
Learn to attract people at your common level of self-love, rather than at your common level of self-abandonment.
"I Can't Do It"
Does your internal dialogue of "I can't" and your fear of failure stop you from doing what you really want to do?
Do You Chase When Someone Withdraws?
Do you find yourself chasing after someone when he or she withdraws from you? How do you feel when you do this, and what is generally the result?
No One Appreciates Me
Do you frequently feel that you do so much for others, yet end up feeling unappreciated by others?
"I Feel Trapped"
Do you feel trapped by numerous situations in your life and find yourself going into resistance? Discover a way out of procrastination and resistance.
What to do When You Can't Communicate
Do you know a healthy way of behaving when you are stuck and unable to communicate with someone? Learn how in this article.
Why Don't You Speak Up For Yourself?
Do you have problems speaking up for yourself when others are being uncaring?
Discover Your Level of Narcissism
The ego wounded self in all of us exhibits some degree of narcissism. Discovering where you fall on this continuum can lead to deeper learning and healing.
Feeling Disconnected From Your Partner?
Do you often feel disconnected from your partner? Discover what creates this disconnection and how to re-connect.
Are You or Your Partner Possessive?
Are you and your partner operating in a relationship system that is based on possessiveness?
"If You Really Loved Me, You Wouldn't..."
How often do you tell yourself that another's uncaring behavior means that this person doesn't care about you?
Burned by Coffee or Burned by Heartbreak - They Feel the Same
Did you know that heartbreak hurts as much as a coffee burn? Learn to embrace and release this pain rather than getting stuck in suffering.
Why Do We Seek Approval?
If you are addicted to seeking others\' approval, this article is for you!
A Problem with Today\\\\\\\'s Parenting
Many parents try to be far better parents than their parents were, yet their children grow up feeling lost and empty. Discover why in this article.
Life: Security or a Daring Adventure?
Do you believe it\'s possible to have control over being safe on this planet? What do you do to create the illusion of safety and security?
The Vital Importance of Community
Discover why people in a particular kind of community die of old age, rather than from heart disease and cancer.
Caretaking: A Covert Form of Narcissism
Caretaking is NOT the opposite of narcissism!
Self-Pity or Self-Compassion
Do you understand the difference between self-pity and self-compassion?
Blaming Others Can Ruin Your Health
Do you know that blaming others hurts you more than it hurts the ones you are blaming? Discover how to release blame.
Intimacy and Connection - The Aliveness of Life
Do you want to experience intimacy and connection with others, and the joy and aliveness that this offers? You need to start by learning how to love yourself, rather than abandon yourself.
Find your Genius
We are all geniuses. Are you ready to find your genius?
Do You Isolate?
If you tend to isolate, and you believe that isolating protects you from getting hurt, you might be surprised to learn of the harm you are causing yourself.
Stop Taking the Bait of Projection!
Do you know how to take care of yourself when you are at the other end of projection?
How to Connect with Others
Are you mystified about how to create meaningful emotional connection with others?
Will Your Next Marriage be Better?
Discover the surprising statistics about second and third marriages, and why they have such a poor success rate.
How do you Make Others Responsible for Your Painful Feelings?
Discover some of the more common ways we dump our feelings onto others in an effort to rid ourselves of our painful feelings.
Are you Inspiring or Gloomy?
Do you inspire others with your caring energy, or do you bring others down with your misery?
Persistence: Playing a Poor Hand Well
Are you allowing the hand you were dealt to determine what you do in life, or are you willing to make the best of a poor hand?
What Will Love Give You?
What are your beliefs about what another's love will give to you?
When You Love Yourself, You Let Others Off the Hook
Do you believe that loving yourself is selfish? Discover why this is not true!
“I Feel Overwhelmed”
When you feel overwhelmed, do you believe that it is about external circumstances? Discover why this might not be true.
What is Enlightenment?
Wayne Dyer offers us a simple yet profound definition of enlightenment - simple, but not easy.
Who Am I?
Take a lesson from Elvis Presley: Learn to define your own worth, instead of having to ask others, "Who am I"
Your Own Inner Work Affects the Whole World!
You have more of an effect on the world than you know!
Giving To Others: Draining Or Fulfilling?
Do you get drained or fulfilled in giving to others? Discover why!
Do You See The Obstacle Or The Goal?
Where does your mind generally go-to the obstacles or to the goal? You CAN change your mindset if it is stopping you from having what you want.
Authenticity, Transparency and Integrity
Do you know how to discern when someone is being transparent and authentic and when they are being duplicitous?

Is There Such A Thing As Healthy Narcissism?
Discover that 'healthy narcissism' is an oxymoron!
Can You Love Others?
What is loving to yourself and others is not always clear. This article presents some important questions to consider.
Does Your Morning Routine Support Your Creativity?
Have you decided that you are not creative? Do you feel a deadness regarding creativity?

Other Margaret Paul Related Articles

Steve Jobs Bio
The Steve Jobs bio, and the story of the life of a man whose career would rebound more times than many critics thought possible, began in San Francisco, California on February 24, 1955. Born to an unwed American mother and a Syrian father, Jobs was put up for adoption by his parents the week after his arrival in this world. Taken in by Paul and Clara Jobs of Mountain View, California, Jobs dislikes the term “adoptive parents” and considers Paul and Clara the only parents he ever had.

Failure Comes From Not Following Your Additive Rules
The cliche “rules were meant to be broken” is a common one in the world of entrepreneurship. Paul Berberian – a great entrepreneur (and dear friend) almost died yesterday when flying his airplane because he broke three of his rules of flying in a row. Paul got lucky and I very glad he’s alive.
How to decide when you need a written agreement (and when you don’t)
“You have a deal!” said John as he reached over to shake Paul’s hand. Paul was elated. He knew the new business venture could reap rewards for both parties. However, Paul had been burnt before in a similar deal and knew he should have a written agreement with John. But, he wasn’t sure John would go for it – and he didn’t want to lose the deal.

The Only Object of Life
Margaret Fuller wrote: “Very early, I knew that the only object in life was to grow.” I love this quote and imagine this perspective had a profound impact on the quality of her life. If each of us shared Margaret’s outlook and truly lived from this perspective in all of its fullness, what would be different for us and those whom we touch? There are many possibilities.
Success Through A Positive Mentor
"Success Through A Positive Mentor" is John Paul Carinci's story of how a chance meeting with an Olympic champion at age 21 changed John forever. by John Paul Carinci: author of "The Power Of Being Different" (c- 1998 John Paul Carinci)
Visions: A Success Story
Are you feeling overwhelmed or confused about what to do next? No time for yourself, let alone take a course and then have to implement the learning. You and Paul have a lot in common, here is how Paul used his vision to get unstuck and playing a new game.

Organizational Change - Of Ferns and Fractals
Last time your took a walk in nature did you ask yourself “who controls all this stuff?” I would venture to say that you did not. Most of us take a walk just to enjoy the fresh air-but not Margaret Wheatley. Margaret looked at the natural world and asked herself: “how can there be so much order in a nature without anyone in control of it?”. For example how is there so much symmetry in a plant such as a fern?

Do you do things every day that amaze you?
I very much enjoyed a seminar recently with a colleague Paul Dunn who is known internationally as ‘the wizard of wow’. I also love getting emails from Paul who often signs off with “be sure to keep on doing things that amaze you.” In this article are 5 ways you can do things everyday that will amaze you.
Five Ways for Sales Leaders to Stay Inspired
Paul Smith is the Sales Director of a leading pharmaceutical company. He has been in the industry for the last 10 years and has been a star in his various sales and marketing roles. His recent promotion, finds him managing managers. His leadership style has always been one of pace setting and leading by example. Having just gone through a sales force downsizing Paul has adopted an inspirational leadership style.

Sales Management Case Studies Inspired Five Ways for Sales Leaders to Stay
Paul Smith is the Sales Director of a leading pharmaceutical company. He has been in the industry for the last 10 years and has been a star in his various sales and marketing roles. His recent promotion, finds him managing managers. His leadership style has always been one of pace setting and leading by example. Having just gone through a sales force downsizing Paul has adopted an inspirational leadership style.

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