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Commit to changing your life THIS MONTH
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| Do you have habits, issues, situations and people in your life which continue to cause you upset and frustration? Are you stuck in a rut continuing in the same old patterns where nothing changes? Are you feeling hopeless and frustrated that things will never improve? If so, I ask you, how many more months; years are you going to continue with these issues?
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The Plight of the Pleaser
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| What happens when emotionally laden words are presented to you? Can one word make a difference in how you react? |
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3 Leadership Rules to Get Employee Buy-In
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| Did you ever surprise someone with a gift and did not get the response you were hoping for?
This happens all the time. Part of the reason is we can only get inside someone else's thinking and emotions to a point; no matter how well we know them. It's the same at work.
You will find 3 leadership rules to get employee buy-in, that if followed will create inclusion in the workplace.
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5 Ways to Get Engaged at Work
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| While some of us really do meet the love of our life at work, this is not about that. This is about an engineering type of being engaged; like the gears in a machine that fit together and make things run smoothly. Lots of recent articles I've seen on various blogs have been about friends working together. The big question is: is it better for friends to work together or be in separate areas of the company?
I have 5 ways to make that happen.
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3 Ways to Keep “Pattern Spills” from Hurting Your Business
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| Einstein once defined insanity as "doing the same things over and over and expecting different results".
Think about your business. What do you keep repeating hoping it will turn out better this time? Do you ever feel "duped" by a colleague or even a customer? Do you keep knocking your head against the wall saying "I can't believe this happened again?"
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Workplace Conflict and Being True to Yourself
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| Stress, tension, anxiety, anger, upset, depression, frustration, annoyance, and wasted time. They all go with the package called being human. They all show up at home, at work, and even at the supermarket.
One of the biggest questions I get when folks ask about their own personal situations at work is how to cut the time wasted in attempting to resolve conflicts that don't want to just go away. They are able to see the patterns and even the parts they play in the office dramas. However, I am told that unless they apologize or just let the conflict go, it sits, like a well made snowman on a freezing winter day.
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5 Steps to Become Conflict Competent
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| Conflict is a drain on all of us, emotionally, physically, and financially. There are always new, annoying problems that lead to conflict. |
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Morale is King (and Queen) of the Workplace
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| Here are four important ways to keep employee morale at a high point. What you are looking for is that mystical win/win that sounds better on paper than it usually plays in real life. So, pay attention and whether you have one employee or many, these tips are worth their weight in gold.
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Risky Business: Put Your Own Needs First
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| "Realize you do not exist in this world primarily to serve others, but to serve yourself and make the most out of your life".
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Entrepreneur Flexibility: More than Practicing Yoga
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| We are told to be flexible, that the only constant in life is change; that we can't step in the same river twice, as heraclitus said hundreds of years ago. |
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Entrepreneur Education: Do Good Bosses Really Exist?
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| Think about the bosses you have had that you would follow anywhere. What are the basic characteristics of these folks? It becomes interesting to look for the common denominators that are "good boss" requirements.
I recently asked several groups in various organizations how they would categorize the best of their bosses. Here is where it got interesting. They were only a few basics that ran across cultures and up and down organizations. These were generic patterns of respect, civility (this word was used over and over), empowerment, and ability to acknowledge work well done. |
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How Your Brain Can Make You Nuts at Work
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| Sometimes there is a frustrating moment when you are not sure what you see, hear, and feel is making sense to anyone but you. It is crazy making to check what is going on in a meeting and you are the only one sensing the tension and disconnect.
Maybe, just maybe, it is not what is happening in the room at that exact time. Perhaps, it is a memory trace of a past event in your lif,e and there you are, in a sense, reliving it.
The scientific term for this is called an engram. Here is an example: You are a toddler and the family is going to the beach for the first time. Everyone is excited about flying from land-locked Oklahoma to Florida. |
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Entrepreneurs and Dancing with the Stars
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| Are you an entrepreneur or merely a business person with some ideas? |
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Entrepreneur Strategies: The Home-Work Connection
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| When you are stressed at work do you ever say "My home is my haven?" And when there is too much going on at home think "I can't wait to get to work so I don't have to think about the problems at home?"
Work and home seem like different worlds. We say we want work/life balance as if they are opposite chunks of matter we can weigh on a scale. Thinking we can totally separate who we are at work from who we are at home is an illusion. Sure, there are some differences. Yet, the common denominator is that we bring ourselves to work, with all our patterned behavior, and we take that same self home. The other common denominator is that work and home are both relationship systems that are powerful influencers on us. |
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Entrepreneurs as Coaches
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| I was at a client's company last week and heard a brief hallway conversation as I was waiting for my lunch appointment. The gist of what was said sounded like two people in a war torn country.
"I bought lots of canned goods that were on sale just in case I lose my job" said person one. The response was "Yeah, I know what you mean; I just went to the thrift store to get my kids spring clothes because I am afraid to spend too much money." This went back and forth until they were out of earshot. |
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Fairy Tales
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| One of my clients told me the following story: "we were sitting in a meeting and it was, to say the least, very tense. The big boss was angry with her leadership team. She wanted the finished proposal for a major, big, gargantuan business deal finished before the sun set that day, right after the meeting.
Everyone took a breath and looked down at the table. They all knew it was impossible. The stats had not been delivered yet and there was no way it could be done and done right by early evening, even by late that night. |
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Create New Success Habits!
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| Now is the time to create some new success habits! |
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Recycling Your Working Cycle
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| Even though cycles are predictable, these can be re-programmed. Patterns of behaviors can be reformed, just as we can learn new skills if we decide and commit to it. Some business cycles are functional patterns, whereas others may be destructive ones. |
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Expatriate counseling uses NLP for Counseling
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| NLP explores the inner workings of the human mind; how we think, how we develop our desires, goals and fears and how we motivate ourselves, make connections, and give meaning to our experiences. By understanding this process, individuals are presented with specific skills and patterns necessary to make positive changes, create new choices, be more effective with others, break free of old habits, self-destructive patterns and behaviours, and think more clearly about what he or she wants and how to attain it.
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Smart Mind Set for Success
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| Get Rid of Limiting Patterns That Block Success! |
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A Simple Method For Achieving More
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| Break your previous patterns!
Past experiences mould the patterns in our mind, our beliefs, habits and how we behave. |
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Leadership in the Age of Uncertainty
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| It has been said that the only constant is change. In this age of uncertainty and volatility change can occur more rapidly than we’d wish. One way to take charge of an uncertain future is to make your strategic planning a highly focused activity.
We show you how to identify patterns of uncertainty that will prepare you to respond more appropriately and how to engage others in recognizing those patterns. |
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The Danger of Life Patterns
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| What are your life patterns? Why would you want to know? The importance of this article is in the explanation of how our life patterns determine our success or failure. If you want more prosperity in life and business, make sure you start with changes your life patterns to match those desires. |
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3 Key Secrets to Help You Break Through Any Mental Barrier
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| Do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try and break old patterns and beliefs, something gets in the way? Have you tried certain programs, techniques or exercises only to fall back to you old ways? If you have, it’s not your fault. Find out three key strategies you can use to break through old beliefs and patterns and achieve business and life success immediately. |
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A Little Change Can Go A Long Way
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| If you look at your every day life, you will notice regular patterns (habits) that govern you. Your routines produce results. What results will your life patterns produce? Basically the same thing you've been experiencing for a long time.
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Lead People, Manage Money
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| The idea of patterns at play in the workplace is beginning to create some lively discussions. You can take the quiz to observe the personal patterns you bring to work by taking the quiz on my website. If you choose, you can then have a free half hour consultation to give you pointers on what to do to make positive changes and increase your career success quotient. Not bad for less than an hour to be able to say "Oh, now I get it!!"
George White took the test and here is his response: |
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A Few First Steps Toward Inspirational Leadership
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| One of the first bits of advice I can give my clients is that they will not begin to develop a reputation for inspirational leadership until they eliminate (or significantly reduce) the things they do that actually de-motivate the very people they're trying to inspire. Many managers, knowingly or unknowingly, fall into patterns of behavior their teams find uninspiring. Here are some of the more common patterns, and what you can do to stay out of the traps and move toward inspirational leadership.... |
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Recycling Your Working Cycle
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| Even though cycles are predictable, these can be re-programmed. Patterns of behaviors can be reformed, just as we can learn new skills if we decide and commit to it. Some business cycles are functional patterns, whereas others may be destructive ones. |
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