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Big Bird’s Guide to Change Management - Learn your A, B, C, Ds
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| In the 1950s, psychologist Albert Ellis introduced Rational Therapy in which people were taught the A-B-C-D approach for dealing with uncomfortable situations. The A-B-C-D approach states that when a person is confronted with an adversity A, their beliefs B, will influence the way they respond to that adversity and lead to emotional and behavioral consequences C.
If the beliefs B, are rigid, absolute, and unrealistic, the consequences C, will likely be self-defeating and destructive. If the beliefs B, are flexible and constructive, the consequences C, will likely be self-helping and constructive. People can change their lives and their consequences by D, disputing and challenging their beliefs. |
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Use Math to Create Loyalty
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| This week's tip comes from my friend Chip Conley, author of the new book "Peak: How Great Companies Get Their Mojo from Maslow" and CEO of Joie de Vivre hotels. Many people have told me and Chip that we were separated at birth in terms of our approach to business and life. |
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Depression and ADHD
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| Did you know that one out of four adults with ADHD suffer with depression? This is a higher rate than for the rest of the population. Depression can have a mysterious cloak around it, however, it helps to know that there are two types. “Primary Depression” is hereditary and you can feel depressed without there being a trigger or reason why you are depressed. “Secondary Depression” is the result of a trigger, perhaps because you are struggling with ADHD, repeatedly feeling like a failure despite great efforts to live up to society’s standards of what is “normal.” |
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Forgiveness Technique
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| Adults with ADHD typically experience more criticism and “unpleasant” situations in their life than their non-ADHD peers. These experiences begin as a child, through teenage years and into adulthood. Not only are these experiences disagreeable at the time, but also the memories of these situations can still affect you years after it occurred. A memory can pop up into your mind while you are driving along, or in the supermarket line. What “Mrs. Smith” said about your Maths when you were eight years old, or the nasty comment Susy (your last, but only girlfriend) said about you. |
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Deliberately Choose How You Want To Live Your Life
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| This article asks the question, "Is your life worth living?" This simple question, when asked often, creates more abundance in your life. Here are practical tools to remind yourself that you are in control of creating a wonderful quality of life regardless of your circumstances.
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What Still, Small, Voice?
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| Our mind is constantly involved in conversations with our
Internal Dialogue. Discover what each of the four voices
want to better control our mind. Start now. |
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How To Recapture The Optimism Of Youth
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| We all know that being positive is a Good Thing. But as we get older, it’s not that easy to break long-held habits of negative, self-defeating thinking. By following these steps, you'll be able to recapture the optimism of your more youthful self! |
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Business Leadership 3.0
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| A few years ago I was discussing business leadership with an experienced business consultant and psychologist. He suggested that the next evolution of business leader would come from an HR background. |
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The 10 Questions of Marketing
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| Why do we as marketers do what we do? To achieve results! But how do we ensure that we are consistently achieving results? |
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What are you doing...outside of the office?
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| This article challenges one to be cognizant of conduct immaterial of our whereabouts. This is designed for a facilitator to use in a staff meeting. |
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Emotional intimacy - The Essential Daily Requirement for the health and longevity of your relationship.
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| “Into-me-you-see”
Without intending to stereotype the genders, as soon as I sent out a “survey” and asked people to share their views on intimacy, somehow most of the women sent in their feelings of what Intimacy means to them on an emotional level and most of you guys out there sent me stuff that made me blush.
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Real Estate Marketing Strategies - Seven Simple Steps to More Clients in 90 Days
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| Are you letting your dislike of marketing get in the way of your business? Focus on your goal! Here are some tips to empower you and help you attract more clients. |
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Social Networking and the End of Advertising
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| Social Networking – it’s the buzz word on everyone’s lips. But what does it really mean for your business? In a word – everything. The three pillars of social networking - collaboration, information sharing and group forming - are innate human qualities. Understanding these qualities will enhance your business outreach and future advertising campaigns. |
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What Drives You? Understanding Our Motivations
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| Are there basic drives that are common to all human beings? Which ones are driving us in our daily lives? How are they influencing the choices you make? |
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Confidence Is Money
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| Confidence comes and goes; but you have to have it when it counts. |
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Small Customers Have Money Too
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| How Stan Gross survived before he hit it big in his consultancy. |
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Today's Economy DEMANDS A Critical Skill: Optimism
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| Although there is much to fear right now there is always hope and optimism. Let Eileen McDargh show you how you can learn optimism. |
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Using Your Heart and Soul in Business
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| Using your heart and soul is the best way to market your business. Oftentimes people feel that they have to use what is called the traditional “hard sell” to market their business. Most of the time, this approach is just simply against most peoples' nature to do anyway. Judith Shervin and Jim Sniechowski are a husband and wife psychologist team who have developed a way to use the “soft sell” approach to marketing. |
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Should I include a Photograph in my Resume?
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| Unless you are applying for jobs where a certain type of physical appearance is necessary to do the job such as modelling or acting or being an extra in a TV commercial or where employers specifically request a photograph, I do not recommend including them in your resume. |
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Creating A Successful Online Sales Strategy
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| You have a website, and perhaps you're even a professional salesperson, and as such you know that the best way to sell someone something is face-to-face, but have you seen the price of gas lately?
So whether your customers are local, national, or international, the cost of getting to them is just too darn high to make any money. You could call them on the phone or email them, but with voice mail, spam filters, and all manner of gatekeepers, it is literally impossible to get to people, even when they're waiting for your call.
It's never been easy to sell, but in today's jaded, cynical, frustrated business climate, the job is even harder.
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Leading in Uncertain Times
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| What happened?! Almost overnight we have moved from a growing economy to uncertainty in direction and solutions. We can evaluate the what, why and how but it leaves us needing to lead and navigate in unchartered waters. There are five key steps that leaders need to take to move through this challenging time. |
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How Do I Avoid Thee? Let Me Count The Ways!
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| Many men would be really furious at me if they thought I questioned their courage. But it's true: women tend to be far more courageous than their counterparts. |
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You need involvement
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| If you're looking to build connections for you and your business, then you need involvement, too. Networking requires you to know other people, and successful entrepreneurs know the best way to do that is to be involved.
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Professional Speaking Tips From Dr. Jack Singer
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| As a psychologist who is also a professional speaker I am often asked by people how to gain in confidence so they can get up on stage and easily share their gifts and passions. What I have always found is that the way you talk reflects your personality and displays the amount of confidence you have in your message. |
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The Missing Piece That Can Hold You Back
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| If you want to create a result and you’re being held back in some way, a revealing question to ask is, “What’s the payoff I’m getting from staying where I am NOW?” This article is about how understanding the answer can set you free. |
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How to Pick The Right Coach
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| I’m often asked “How does one go about choosing a coach?” It’s not simple question but an important one to answer. It’s goes well beyond choosing a coach; it’s important to figure out how to get the most out of the coaching relationship once you’ve made that choice. The synergy of the relationship is what makes the difference to any well-motivated client.
If you want to maximize the value of the coaching relationship, here are some ways to do it that work very well.
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How to Develop Confidence in Yourself
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| Do you struggle with doubts that hold you back from reaching your dreams? Are you timid in situations that may present roadblocks to your success? Instead of settling for a mediocre life, learn a few simple strategies that will help you to feel confident in every situation. Confidence in your talents and abilities is closer than you think. You were created for a purpose, and you’re the only one who can fulfill that purpose.
Each one of us has a lot to offer the world. All you need is to discover the passion inside of you and agree to leave your comfort zone in favor of a life filled with joy.
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How Is Your “To Do” List Working For You?
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| To-do lists are magic. According to experts, the second you write something down, you’re infinitely more likely to actually make it happen than if you rely on your (sometimes faulty) memory. |
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How to Deal with Difficult clients
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| Dealing with difficult clients is a lot like dealing with an in-law you don’t like. They drive you crazy, but you know you have to be nice to them. When they do call, it’s always at the most inconvenient times. You then feel you can’t get off of the phone fast enough because they usually go on forever. They also both seem to take great pleasure in making your life hard. |
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Attitude Have It Hire It
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| Attitude is one of the most important traits you need to develop and one of the most important traits to look for in hiring and promoting people. It is virtually impossible to fix a bad attitude. |
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Self-Doubt -- Motivation
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| A doubt is just a feeling of uncertainty; it has no proof underpinning it. If a doubt has no basis , then it is a hindrance.
Once you have pure and sincere motivation, all the rest follows. The prime mover of every action is the motivation or the determination. |
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Leaders and the four fatal fears
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| Read about the common fears that get in the way of leadership along with suggestions to overcome these fears. |
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Thought Conformity
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| People pass off others' thinking as their own. They parrot others' issues without personal analysis. And they embrace others' perspectives as if it was their original thought. But these repackaged perspectives hamper innovation, personal growth, and business results. |
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It is All Your Fault
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| What makes your business stressful? The huge volume of work? Having copious different projects to monitor? The long hours? Always thinking about work? Is it the bills? No. Actually, it's you!
We are evolving into a population of complainers who want to stay 'under the radar' of responsibility, through avoiding conflict, negating ownership and persistent procrastination |
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Do You Have What It Takes To Become An Entrepreneur
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| Believe it or don't, I just flunked another test for "entrepreneurial" traits!
From my test score, it appears I am probably better adapted to washing dishes than running a business. Then again, according to the governing laws of aerodynamics, Bumble Bees can't fly either.
Let me tell you a TRUE STORY about those tests. |
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Other psychologist Related Articles
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TRADITIONAL SALES TRAINING LEADS TO DECLINE IN SALES
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| Industrial psychologist and sales researcher Neil Rackham reports in a study of over 1000 sales calls that sales results deteriorated after traditional sales training programs were implemented. |
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Ten (Actually Fifteen) Questions with Dr. Sandor Gardos
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| This is an interview with Dr. Sandor Gardos, CEO and staff sexologist of MyPleasure. Sandor is a licensed clinical psychologist and sex therapist as well as a board-certified sexologist. We met recently at a San Francisco Entrepreneurs Organization dinner where I was the keynote speaker. |
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Business Leadership 3.0
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| A few years ago I was discussing business leadership with an experienced business consultant and psychologist. He suggested that the next evolution of business leader would come from an HR background. |
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Your Environment: A Determining factor to your Success
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| In his book Blink, Malcolm Gladwell covers a topic on Priming The Subconscious Mind. I feel there is an interesting point being exercised here, and would like to share it with you. He mentions about a very curious test conducted by a psychologist named John Bargh, called the Priming Experiment. Read on... |
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Sports Psychology
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| When the chips are down, the athlete often cannot share his/her inner fears, anxiety and anger issues with the coach or their parents. Now the athlete has a new ally…the professional Sports Psychologist (also referred as the professional Sport Psychologist). |
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Athletes and Sports Psychologists
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| When the chips are down, the athlete often cannot share his/her inner fears, anxiety and anger issues with the coach or their parents. Now, the athlete has a critical ally…the professional Sports Psychologist (also referred as the professional Sport Psychologist). |
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Interview with Sylvia Lafair
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| Sylvia Lafair is a clinical psychologist and author of "Don't Bring It to Work". She specializes in developing leaders and transforming teams. Sylvia has been a top author for my site and I decided to ask her a few questions to learn more about her and how she helps entrepreneurs grow their businesses. |
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Professional Speaking Tips From Dr. Jack Singer
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| As a psychologist who is also a professional speaker I am often asked by people how to gain in confidence so they can get up on stage and easily share their gifts and passions. What I have always found is that the way you talk reflects your personality and displays the amount of confidence you have in your message. |
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Cheer Leaders Inspire Others
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| It has been said that there are only two types of people who thrive on being recognized for their achievements: men and woman. (I guess that covers most of us!) Reflecting on a life of pioneering work, 19th-century American philosopher and psychologist William James said, "I now perceive one immense omission in my psychology - the deepest principle of human nature is the craving to be appreciated." |
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Leadership’s Link to Emotional Intelligence
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| Ever wonder why some of the most brilliant, well-educated people aren’t promoted, while those with fewer obvious skills climb the professional ladder? Chalk it up to emotional intelligence (EI), a term first coined in 1995 by psychologist Daniel Goleman in his New York Times bestseller Emotional Intelligence. |
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