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Turning A 'No' Into A 'Yes'
I recently experienced a very clear example of Buying Facilitation®, when i used it to turn a failed buying situation into a purchase. I tell a shortened version of this story in my new book, Dirty Little Secrets; it bears repeating during this economic confusion when buyers are having difficulty getting to ‘yes’. I was at a client site running a Buying Facilitation® training. A part of the training includes real-time calls to clients prospects. In this situation, my client had requested that the team listen to me on a call first, so they could hear what BF actually sounded like real-time. They set up a phone meeting between me and a prospect who had called recently to say “Sorry. We won’t be purchasing your product,” after one year of 3 sales visits and 3 product trials.

Angel Investors- An Entrepreneurial Partnership
It's time for entrepreneurs to get real when raising capital and examine their relationship with potential angel investors. Discover what you need to do as a small business entrepreneur to prepare for bringing an angel investor on-board.

Truth-Telling Game
Intimacy is one of the most fulfilling aspects of relating with another. In opening oneself and revealing your innermost thoughts to another creates intimacy, understanding and deepens any relationship. The feeling of "being known" and "knowing another" authentically is fulfilling. One fun way to stir up the intimacy quotient is by playing the "Truth-Telling Game". It’s simple and easy, but not for the faint of heart. It’s about connecting to your truth in the moment, and then sharing that with another

Having Life Plan
People may call me lots of things, but one thing where most people will agree who know me is that I have a purpose to most everything I do; perhaps even to a fault. Playing a game of golf just for fun? Not so much. Playing a game of golf so I can build a relationship with someone or have quiet time to focus on something my mind has been racing about lately. Occasionally. (Actually about twice a year.) My life is usually aiming for something. I promise you I’m not writing this blog post just for “fun”. (What’s that?) So when I write about developing a life plan you can be sure it’s something I practice.

Your Role in Today's Economy is NOT to Increase Sales
The emerging role of the sales professional today is not to increase sales. Let me repeat that--- your role today is not to increase sales. Your role as a sales professional today is to systematically and consistently increase the number of customers who choose you to be their #1 supplier. You must become----The Supplier of Choice----which means you always get-----The First Call----and The Last look! Don't make the rookie mistake of thinking that your customers don't give last looks. If your customer doesn't give you the last look, then that means somebody else is getting it. It's time to evaluate the relationship equity you have built with that account.

Being Genuine: Stop Being Nice, Start Being Real - A Book Review
Being Genuine is simply stated, one of the best books I have read all year. It very clearly and effectively conveys a process for communicating with others in a genuine and non-judgmental way. Anyone who learns and practices his four simple steps will quickly discover that their everyday communication becomes clearer, less judgmental and less conflictual because they are taking responsibility for their feelings and actions and creating a space to connect. I have never come across an easier way to show people how they can get their needs met without fear of conflict.

Building Trust between Management and Employees
Employees are the ones that can in fact have a positive or negative effect not only on your company’s reputation but the success of your company as well. Those managers that are able to maintain and develop trust among their employees are the ones that have longer employee retention.

Communicating With Your Bank
Entrepreneurs need to be prepared with facts and effective communication skills when they visit their local bank, or when a new banking relationship is being established. Do not take it lightly. Follow this quick advice to get the most out of your relationship with your bank and bank managers.

Increase Sales by Understanding Your Sales Process
As a business coach, at some point early in my relationship with my clients I'll ask them to map out their sales process and it never ceases to amaze me that some of those really smart businesspeople have never sat down to look at how they sell, how they train their people to sell, and what works - or doesn't! I'll often get the response, "Well, we just sell it to them", which doesn't give one much traction when it comes to assessing or improving sales. The first two things you need to know in order to be able to assess your selling process are real answers to the questions, "Why do people buy what you sell?" and "Why do they buy it from you?"

Not of Mice and (Yes) Men
Working with a business coach is a great way to grease the wheels of a growing (or struggling) business. The coach-client relationship is a partnership based upon trust and respect; there is but one goal- the success of the client. Of ultimate importance is the ability to develop clarity around the client goals and intent. This can involve some very powerful searching and since the truth is essential, the coach is anything but a ‘yes-man’.

Rekindle your Relationship with your Home Based Business
This is not easy to do being successful as a home based business. Regardless of all the ads that are on the Internet claiming of how they can show you how you can make money online from your home by just doing a minimal amount of work and just wait for the checks to begin to roll in.None of that is true it takes a tremendous amount of drive and motivation to be successful online.Just except it make some changes and get busy reach out to others there is amazing amount of power in people take advantage of it make that new spark.

Cupid in the Workplace
Do you allow romance in the workplace? According to SHRM, 72% of companies surveyed have NO written policy regarding dating in the workplace. But at the same time, SHRM also found that 66% of the employees surveyed know of a relationship that developed at work. Has your organization addressed this issue? Where do you stand?

3 Things You Must Avoid When You Give Feedback
It’s always a sticky situation when you have to give or get negative feedback and this is just not a topic always covered in business school. It really is about understanding how to manage people relationship systems, a leadership core competency for the 21st Century. Read on for 3 guidelines for giving feedback so you can mentor employees to grow to the next level.

10 Things A Manager Needs To Do On The Very First Day
One of the biggest challenges for any new manager, is how to approach (and even survive) the very first day in their new appointment. Indeed what you do on day one, may well frame the relationship with your employees for years to come...

Part 2 - A business paradigm change is needed
This is not a call to arms, for a revolution nor is it a recipe for chaos. This is a call for understanding; for a paradigm change. More of the same will give us all more of the same – this is the recipe for chaos. Just look around. It is obvious from the state of the World economy, the mental health and the well being of the general population that something is out of kilter.

Have you Factored your Relationships into your Business plan?
Christmas is a time which highlights different aspects of our lives to us. Our Relationships (yes with a capital R for importance) is one such area. At Christmas, the lack of investment, perhaps the high turn over, and the profit or loss of our Relationships is put on a platter alongside the turkey.

Thoughts On Google And China
Google’s decision to second-guess its relationship with China has raised some interesting questions recently. Namely, whether Google’s decision sprang from their moral opposition to censorship, or simply from a decreased financial interest in a country with a much more popular search engine, known as Baidu. So far, the controversy appears to be more of a commercial, as opposed to a political dilemma. A private, business-related concern. But whenever the question of morality, of a battle between good (Google) and evil, comes into play in the news, you can be sure that the blogosphere will start freaking out.

IF YOU ARE GOING TO SAY SOMETHING - MAKE A STATEMENT
Just how many of these have you expressed to your customers in your marketing? If you have told people about these special accomplishments, did it move your relationship to a new level?

Learned a Marketing Lesson at the AME Conference
The relationship to that concept was demonstrated at the AME Conference. The attendees and exhibitors have been thru the top section of the hourglass and now are in the bottom half. Not to sound too clinical, but they were the Buyers of the program. The next step in the funnel is the Repeat stage. AME started marketing the next conference in Baltimore immediately after you signed up for this one.

Protect Yourself by Knowing Your Customers' Credit
Sad to say, I spend a fair amount of time these days trying to help clients get paid. (Of course, my strongest tool is a solid relationship with a smart collection lawyer!) There is nothing more frustrating to a small business owner who provides superior services than having to pursue the deadbeat customer who refuses to pay when the bill comes due.

On Your Six, Boss!
The relationship between employer and employee in small businesses is often a very personal one. There is more camaraderie, more trust and more interaction than one typically finds in a large company. Small business employers know the stories behind their employees and see them as people with families, mortgages, college tuitions, etc.

How much ACTION are you REALLY willing to take?
How happy are you with your life? Are you tired, wish you had a better job, relationship, more energy, a fitter body or improved relationships with friends and family? Do you want to feel more relaxed, happy and successful?

The Power of Apology Part 2
I covered a number of different angels on the apology in my last post, and yet there seems to be more.

Are you ready for a Mentor?
What is mentoring? Mentoring is a special relationship between a master and an apprentice. You can find good examples in modern culture: Obiwan Kanobee and Luke Skywalker from Star Wars and Cane (David Carradine) from the old Kung Fu TV series. In centuries past this was the only way to pass on critical knowledge of a craft. The mentor's role was to teach, coach and encourage.

How to Use Twitter for Sales Prospecting
Today I’d like to chat a little about how you can use Twitter to identify hot prospects and begin a conversation with them that can lead to the beginnings of a strong relationship. Not only that, but you can accomplish this without leaving your desk, and without even picking up your phone!

Core Sadness vs. Wounded Sadness
Discover the vast difference between core sadness and wounded sadness, and what causes each.

Your Relationahip Bank
With a strong and healthy relationship bank you can do anything in life. You can create a new business, make a valuable connection for a friend or colleague and even bring important people together for an event to benefit a cause or community! This is like earning your Masters in business networking.

The Three Phases of Relationship
First the "honeymoon" phase then the "power struggle" phase lastly the "integration" phase.

Networking For Relationships Or Transactions?
As leaders, we must recognize that we play a vital role in keeping the larger community strong by being generous with our networks, our knowledge, and enthusiasm, not just to close the next transaction. That’s networking at its best.

Score Big with Lead Scoring
Lead scoring can rapidly improve the relationship between Marketing and Sales by driving measurable revenues. Quickly get up to speed on the concept and determine your best path to leverage this increasingly popular marketing tool. Use Demand Metric’s downloadable Lead Scoring Index to rate the quality of your leads.

How to Build It Before You Need It, Every Day
“Build it before you need it.” That was one of the most important operating principles in Never Eat Alone – the idea that building your network and deepening relationships shouldn’t – in fact, CAN’T – be a machine that you fire up when you suddenly need a new job. Putting time and energy into relationship building should be a lifestyle constant.

Reinventing the Partnership with the Manufacturer
Distribution will always play a role in the supply channel. Manufacturers just can't do what distribution does effectively. But, distributors must recognize that change is upon them. They too must adjust to the evolution taking place in the supply chain. Today's distributors have the opportunity to reinvent the relationship and create a model that is mutually beneficial to both parties.

Resistance to change: inexplicable, irrational, and real
When it's time for us to change, we must make sure that we somehow integrate the new with the decisions and behaviors we've already created and maintain daily. Until or unless we are able to figure out how to reconfigure our rules and roles and relationship and ego issues, we will take no action at all - even if it means sticking with something that's less than successful. That's right: even with a 7% closing ratio, many many sales professionals would prefer to continue doing what they are doing rather than change and mess up what they have grown accustomed to and have rationalized and internalized.

Simon Cowell Girlfriend
It might be hard for some American Idol fans to believe that somebody out there could actually be in love with the ruthless judge they see each week hurling out insults at contestants with merciless force and at lightening speed. But, stranger things have happened. She says it isn’t easy being labeled the Simon Cowell girlfriend, but Terri Seymour wouldn’t trade her position for anything in the world.

Lesson #2: A Strong Team Leads the Trail to Tomorrow
“I’m only as good as my team,” says Ramsay. “Building a team is part of the foundation of a good business.”

Lesson #4: Every Entrepreneur Needs a Little Brand Aid
According to Clark, the secret to Baby Einstein’s success has been “a good concept and a brilliant branding strategy.”

Lesson #5: Make Business Personal through Your Relationships
When DeLuca opened up his first Subway store, it was a one-man operation. Occasionally, however, he would convince his mother to help him out. Together, they would drive around town every Friday to visit their four main vendors – the people who supplied them with all of their meat, bread, vegetables and paper. But it was not to pick up any of the supplies.

Vera Wang Quotes
Vera Wang Quotes

Lesson #4: Know Your Opportunities - and Your Limits
Entrepreneurship begins with a dream, and it means having the courage to follow through on that dream. But the danger that lurks for ambitious entrepreneurs is in not knowing how far to take that dream, and when it is time to call it quits.

Twitter for Business Building and Lead Generation (or as I prefer to call it, relationship building) - Part 2 of 2, Communicating with Your Followers
As discussed in the previous article of this series, you're finding and being found by interesting people, with whom to connect via automated and manual means and you experiment with the occasional tweet. Now what?

Follow-Up or Fall on Your Face
Guerrilla marketing preaches to the skies the importance of customer follow-up and prospect follow-up if you have even the vaguest notion of succeeding in business. Why do most businesses lose customers? Poor service? Nope. Poor quality? Nope. Well, then why? Apathy after the sale. Most businesses lose customers by ignoring them to death. A numbing 68% of all business lost in America is lost due to apathy after the sale.

Don\'t Keep Score
Hey, with the national political process well underway, wouldn't it be cool if you had grown up with the President-to-be and he owed you a big favor? WRONG! (Sorry, trick question.) As tempting as that may sound, this kind of thinking will actually lead you to real failure in life on so many dimensions.

Marketings Greatest Enemy
You work like crazy trying to attract attention and business, operating from a marketing calendar, committing to your strategy and doing everything right, resulting in an influx of customers -- but you lose them. They never come back.

Money as a Social Barrier
Check out this study by Prof. Kathleen Vohs of the University of Minnesota (Go Gophers!). She tested the hypothesis that thinking about money can create social barriers. Here is a description of what she did:

Recruiting a New Director
In the life of most companies with an active board of directors, it occasionally becomes necessary to recruit a new director.

A business without a dream is like a life without a purpose
I launched my present company, E-Myth Worldwide, in 1977 to transform the way small business owners do the work of growing their companies. Since then we have coached, trained and taught over 50,000 small business owners in more than 145 countries on how to transform their business to produce consistently better results. What we learned from those 50,000-plus owners could fill a dozen books.

Some are naturals, but everyone can get better
We were recently doing Relationships for Revenue Growth training for some of the sales force of a large technical company, and throughout the day, we had great discussions about the power of turning business relationships into personal relationships.

You can choose the kind of relationship
you have with anyone, even people you must work with for only a few minutes. Tom Peters writes of a losing his luggage recently and how the following lesson he learned from former Texas governor Ann Richards helped him choose the kind of relationship that produced both the best results and more joy in life:

Does Your Firm Suffer from Feature Creep?
I have a software development client that is always complaining about "feature creep." This is their industry term for a software development project that continues to grow as users determine they need little add ons along the way. Next thing you know, nobody can really remember what the software was supposed to do because it doesn't really do any one thing particularly well after the weight of the creep carries it down.

Surface chats at B-school
Dawn Morrow, an MBA candidate at the UNC Kenan-Flagler Business School, wrote this to me after I spoke there recently. Great observations about the surface chats that happen at B-school and everywhere else.

When Free Is Just Too Expensive
Offering free stuff as a marketing tactic is an accepted practice in most industries.

The Art of Passion
I was moved to write another manifesto on the nature of Dreaming in relationship with Passion.

People You Don't Like
I’ve been asked many times, “How do I build a relationship with a person I just don’t like?” And typically, we’re talking about the workplace – a customer or boss or associate. My answer is usually, “Not everyone is going to be your best friend, but if you’re forced to deal with a person, why not make the relationship more personal and real? Wouldn’t you want a better relationship for the sake of success, mutuality, and most importantly, less angst and more joy?”

The Most Valuable Question You May Ever Ask
As you begin to take action toward the fulfillment of your goals and dreams, you must realize that not every action will be perfect.

Gossip
We frequently hear little jokes about gossip, like the two people who were talking and one said, "I can't tell you any more. I've already told you more than I heard." In that line is much of the tragedy about gossip, which can and often has destroyed a person's reputation. Gossip always damages relationships and specifically with the person you are gossiping about. For example, once you have said something unkind about a person, you will feel uncomfortable around him or her and your relationship will suffer.

Q&A - Problem with a mentor
Here's a tough situation a NeverEatAlone reader is having with his mentor (and that's the first problem -- only having 1 mentor!). My quick two cents follows. Also check out Chapter 29 in Never Eat Alone, "Find Mentors, Find Mentees, Repeat."

The TRUST Selling Process
The better prepared you are, the greater the chance for success. Preparation compensates for a lack of talent! The R is for “Relate,” which is building trust and rapport with the prospect. The focus in this step is on the prospect, not on you. This step is a continuous process. You should relate to the prospect through the entire process. You are continually establishing, building and maintaining trust and rapport.

Are There Holes In Your Network?
Once you build a little trust with your clients they often come to rely upon you for more than the scope of your products or services. “I know you’re my accountant, but do you know anyone who can fix my garage door?”

Tip of the week - Great recruiting takes great relationships
When people are considering new job opportunities, I always tell them "Make sure you consider who you'll be working with, who will be mentoring you, and who you can get access to because of this job. Usually that's more important than the money or even the work you'll be doing because it's the PEOPLE that will make the biggest impact in your career and your life."

Little Things Make a Big Difference
There's an old saying that "by the mile it's a trial, and by the inch it's a cinch." The reason the saying is old is because it's good, it's valid. If it were not, it would be dead and buried. For 24 years of my adult life, by choice I weighed well over 200 pounds. I say "by choice" because I have never "accidentally" eaten anything, so when I choose to eat too much, I have chosen to weigh too much. Every choice has an end result.

Talking To Yourself
One of the most moving experiences of my life took place on Sept. 13, 1997, when I was autographing books. . .One lady who asked for an autograph had such a compelling expression on her face that I knew I had to listen carefully to what she had to say. She shared with me that when she got the self-talk card that was included in one of my audiotape programs, she couldn't even read the first list of qualities that she was supposed to claim.

Guerrilla New Business
The obtaining of precious new business is a whole lot easier than you may have imagined -- but only if you have the mindset of the guerrilla

Lighten Up / Tighten Up
As I was writing my previous post about The Constipation of Scale I got an email from a co-investor talking about a CEO / CTO conflict. It had an interesting phrase in it that I realized applies to many CEO / CTO relationships – “CEO needs to lighten up and CTO needs to tighten up.”

100 Ways to Succeed #85
R.O.C(I): "They" All Work For Me!

Drive-By Flattery
If someone you know has done amazing work, don't just thank or compliment the person. Tell his or her boss. I call this drive-by flattery and do it all the time.

Talk to Your Boss about Your Next Job
Guess what? If you've built a strong relationship with your boss, you should be talking to him or her about your next job. It's stupid to pretend you will be at your current job forever when everybody's thinking about their next move.

Connect for the Success of Your Child
You attended Back-To-School Night and you're on helping-with-homework duty, but that's not all you should be doing this new school year.

Posting relevant comments on blogs is networking
I happen to think that many small business folks would find networking on the web as valuable as networking at, say, the next Chamber event. There are many ways to do networking on the web but I happen to think one of the easiest is to participate in blogs you enjoy by frequently posting relevant content. Blog comment posting is very much like standing around chatting with a group of folks at a networking event (except you don’t have to balance the Swedish meatball plate on your wine glass.)

Young Boss, Older Worker
In today’s multi-generational workplace, it’s not unusual for an older worker to have a younger boss. In order for that relationship to survive, both partners have to capitalize on each other’s experiences and strengths.

Those idiots in sales just don’t get it
I’m presenting a workshop this week titled - How to get sales and marketing on the same page.

How to Stay Energized in Your Job Search
Several people have written me recently asking the same question: How do I stay energized and keep my confidence up while I'm looking for work? I know it can be hard, but try to focus on the idea that a period out of work is an opportunity - a time to home in on what's important, both personally and in your career journey. To help you (or someone you know) with that, I've put together some relationship-centric tips to help job hunters stay proactive.

Looking for Mr. Goodtweet: How to Pick Up Followers on Twitter
At 10:15 pm I discovered that I had not brought a Macbook power supply on the trip. I was in a hotel on Coronado Island, and early the next morning I was flying to an aircraft carrier off San Diego for an overnight visit. I doubted that the carrier had Macbook power supplies laying around, so I was in trouble. I posted a message to Twitter that I was in this predicament, and within ten minutes, five people offered to bring me a power supply. I took one of them up on the offer, and he delivered it to me within an hour.

What marketers actually sell
Not powder or chemicals or rubber or steel or silicon or talk or installations or even sugary water. What marketers sell is hope.

Save Yourself from a Missed Opportunity
Presence. Persona. Personality. 'Tude. Whatever you call it, we all have our own unique way of interacting with the people around us. Being aware of how your "way" differs from others can help save you from a bad first impression sinking what might have become a powerful relationship for you both.

The confusion
We frequently confuse internal biochemistry (caused by habits and genetics) with external events. If we didn't, marketing wouldn't work nearly as well.

The Most Valuable Question You Can Ask
As you begin to take action toward the fulfillment of your goals and dreams, you must realize that not every action will be perfect.

What You SHOULD Have Done Last Time You Were in Line at the Grocery Store
A common reaction I get when I teach people my relationship system is, “My schedule’s already busy! Now you want me to fit in all these pings and calls and meetings and dinners and…?”

Five Tips to Instantly Warm Up Meetings and Interviews
Never ever, walk into a meeting cold. Because cold is how you'll leave it.

Eat Your Own Dog Food
I’m not just a coach in the Relationship Masters Academy pilot that launched yesterday – I’m also taking the program myself!

Give Your VCs Assignments
Over the weekend, Mark Suster wrote a great post titled How To Communicate with your Investors between Board Meetings. Mark continues to just tear it up with great advice for entrepreneurs. However, he left out one thing from the post – which is one of my favorite pieces of advice for entrepreneurs. Give your venture capitalists (and board members) assignments Mark alludes to this in many of his suggestions but he never comes out and says it. And, amazingly to me, many entrepreneurs either don’t ever think of this or don’t feel comfortable doing it. They should.

Great Networking Tips from the Relationship Masters Academy
I crowd-sourced this week's newsletter among the RMA class by asking them for their BEST networking tips. We got hundreds, but picked the top ten for today's tip and finished the list with one of my own.

How to get bank funding in five essential steps
As we all know, persuading your bank to give you funding is a much trickier business that it used to be. So if you're an entrepreneur or growing company relying on bank finance, it is essential to have a healthy relationship with your bank.

Mentors and Protégées
A mentor is someone - perhaps a family member, friend or business associate - who is more experienced in the business who is willing to give you some of their time, advice and support. Mentors never do this for money. They enter into the relationship because they want to help you. They see some potential in you and maybe a little of themselves in you. They want to help and you must be ready.

Are you the Boss? -- Tao of Leadership
I'm the boss - Many leaders, things quickly - almost yesterday without giving time to want to room - space and the relationship to mature.

Workplace Coaching: Selecting a Coach
When choosing a coach for your employees, you have before you a number of options. Selecting the wrong coach can lead to disaster. Use the pointers in this article to help you decide on who would make an effective coach in your workplace.

Business Brokers - How to Deal With Them As a Buyer?
Business Brokers are very busy professionals who focus in helping business sellers find the right buyer for their businesses. However, business brokers can be of a great help to potential business buyers who understand the rules of the game. This article explains how savvy business buyers can make the most of their relationship with brokers.

You Can Get a Loan- Meet the Five C’s of Credit
Building a relationship with your lender is as important as meeting the five C's of lending. Knowing the five C's of credit will get you prepared for the loan process. Take a look.

Why Professional Experience Hinges on Personal Value
The personal value attached to the people you do business with directly affects your professional experience. Treating others with the same respect and dignity you’d expect isn’t the bench mark in business. Try treating complete strangers as though they were your closest friends and you’ll immediately become valuable to them.

Next Steps In Your Accountability Partnership
After you've successfully worked with a partner for a while, you may be wondering what options you have for furthering your relationship. I've created this list of some of my favorite next steps.

4 Fantastic Ways to Spark Romance and Intimacy in Your Relationship
There are many fantastic ways to spark romance and intimacy in your relationship that are simple, inexpensive and virtually guaranteed to bring back that lovin’ feeling. Here are four of my favorites. The most important thing is to take a chance to re-ignite the flames of passion and love in your relationship.

7 Ways to Avoid Money Fights in Your Relationship
Money makes the world go round. It’s also is the number one reason why couples fight. Here are 7 ways or guidelines for handling money issues throughout your relationship so you don’t have to end up fighting about money, whether you are dealing with the richer or poorer times in your relationship.

Live Happily Ever After with Realistic Expectations
We all think we’re going to fall in love with Prince (or Princess) Charming and live the rest of our days together in a Disney fairytale “happily ever after.” I don’t know anyone who has lived “happily ever after” all day, every day, day in and day out as the Disney fairytale romances suggest. However, you can live happily ever after if your relationship is based upon realistic expectations.

Why the Relationship is So Important to the Sales Outcome
Many people have written extensively on the topic of relationships and selling. One common topic is that people only buy from people they like and the other is how to develop strong relationships. There is nothing wrong with either of those topics but they surely miss the mark in two important areas.

The Relationship Between the Relationship and the Sales Outcome Part 2
Have you ever worked with salespeople that were so bad you thought, "She couldn't close a door!"? And have you ever worked with salespeople that were so good that you thought, "She could sell white to rice!"?

Anger Rising
Anger is a feeling that is or has been a challenge for most of us to accept and express in healthy ways. Collectively, we receive a multitude of messages about anger being ‘bad’ or ‘negative’ or ‘wrong’.

Taking a “Processing” Break
What do I mean by processing? Evaluating, judging, blaming, comparing, worrying, 'trying hard' to think one's way out of a problem, analyzing, getting caught up in the why’s - all are ways that, as humans, we can process with our minds.

Becoming a Rainmaker
The most effective approach to improving marketing skills is one that results in a fundamental shift in a person's perception of himself, others and the whole marketing process. Marketing is not simply a "numbers game." A person in any field of endeavor can learn to view marketing as an opportunity to do something positive for others, for their company and ultimately for themselves.

Social Media #3 - Marketing Changes in Attitude, Changes in Latitude
Part 3 in a social media tutorial

Product Training is Not Enough!
Many small business owners invest time and energy to ensure that their sales people are well versed in fully understanding the products the sell. Some even take the time to train their teams on how to differentiate their offerings to gain a competitive advantage. This is all good.

Top 20 Requirements - How Salespeople Can Be Better at Closing
While salespeople can get better at closing, closing is an outcome, and with the exception of real estate and banking, not really an event. When we evaluate sales forces and look at their ability to close, they may possess some of the strengths and skills that are part of the Sales Core Competency called Closing, but most of those attributes are used prior to, not during, closing time. The ability to close depends on the following 20 variables (in no particular order) that a salesperson brings to the table - or not:

Anatomy of the Worst Sales Call Ever
It's easier to talk about some of the things he failed to do since he didn't do anything correctly. If we were to perform an analysis working backwards from the end of his (can't really call what he did a) sales process:

Sales Leadership - A Balancing Act Between Compliance and Quotas
We'll discuss the balance sales leaders must have between sharing, mandating and asking. Sounds simple.

What If You Stopped Trying So Hard?
Sometimes its better to stop trying so hard because nature has a funny way of simply taking over!!

There are so Many Ways to Make Money From Home; How Do I Find The Right One for Me?
There are so many ways to make money from home, how do I find the right one for me? Here are some guidelines to follow to find the opportunity that will fit you, your goals and your situation.

Make Money with Feel the Fear & Do It AnywayˇKˇK..by Susan Jeffers, Ph.D.
Tips on How to Build a Successful Business Online Even If You are New.

Accountability Factor for Clients and others
Have clients be accountable would be a heven sent for many salespeople, here is how you can make it happen for you.

Effective Business Relationships - It Takes Just One Small Thing
Building useful relationships in a business world is probably one of the most valuable actions anyone can take. And we need all the help we can get to make this work...

Does a Network Marketing Home Based Business Work?
There are a few main points to consider here: Follow-through, relationships, systems, and serving others. The opportunity you choose will of course will play its part, but it is not the main player that will contribute to making network marketing work.

Introverts, Burger Toppings and Business Networking?
Many of us network like we eat a burger: on auto-pilot. Just how well is that serving you? In particular as an introvert it may not be. And if it's not, then here's what to do about it.

Home Based Business - Getting to Yes With Prospects
In a home based business you must relentlessly make efforts to get the clients to choose your products and services. You have to make your business related activities so attractive to your customers that they willingly start using them. Getting your prospects to mentally answer yes and to submit their order for your products and/or to at least send you their contact information is critical to ensuring the success of your home based business.

Managing Your Emotions after a Layoff
An article of 1072 words offering coaching tips and describing the three phases and corresponding emotions to expect after a layoff

The Honeymoon Hangover - why the ideal hire can fail
We often find the ideal candidate and think that he or she will take us where we need to go. Unfortunately the reality of team dynamics can mean the positive, focussed "new" team can start off well - then all of a sudden the team falters and begins to fail. I call this predictable process the honeymoon hangover. In this article I relate how it happened to a client and what we did (three easy steps) to resolve the issues that almost destroyed the team.

Are Your Expectations Known to You?
We enter the world with high expectations. Somehow we know our parents will feed us, and look after us until we are able to look after ourselves. We attend educational institutions and know that the teachers are paid to teach us. We then enter the world of career choices, we find the perfect job for us and then, well it all falls apart.

Are you an Employee or a Self Employed Individual ?
How to determine if you are or should be an employee or a contracted self employed worker.

Networking
Although technology has become increasingly important in recent years, the importance of relationships in business has not changed. Upon reflection, it appears that we have taken the following path. Technological Era --> Industrial Era In fact, it has been predicted that over the next ten to fifteen years, we will see a new era emerge; that being the era of the relationship in doing business. It is estimated that the relationships we have in business with our customers and within organisations will be the key differentiator for businesses worldwide. Technological Era --> Industrial Era --> Relationship Era

Contact vs Connection
Know the feeling when you make contact with someone and you both promise that you will keep in touch but never do? Or someone you met briefly at a function, where you exchanged business cards, calls you up asking for one favour after another never seeming to return the favour? Or others still who seem to make friends with you only to use you to get to someone else and drop you and soon as they do? Well you are not alone. These are some of the pitfalls when it comes to networking and selling.

The relationship of revenue growth to your job?
Every sales person knows the relationship of prospecting to sales is critical. Without prospecting you are not likely to get a sale. We all know the relationship of sales to revenue growth is high. But how many people in your company know the relationship of revenue growth to their specific job? The sales people do. Owners do. They think about it every day.

You Grow in Network Marketing - We Grow - A Partnership That Works!
One great way to grow your business is to partner with other individuals and small businesses. The idea being that as their business grows yours will as well, and likewise as you become more successful they will benefit.

Put An Issue On the Table
Every day we find ourselves having to work through issues that come up in our relationships. Opportunities to express your concerns or opinions are never too far away. But, do you act on those opportunities or shy away from them? What is the one thing you should do to improve the quality of those relationships?

My Story Marketing- What is it?
My story marketing is attraction marketing through story telling. Become the leader people want to follow.

Ten things to consider when developing your sales strategy
One of the hardest tasks for most small businesses and entrepreneurs is developing a robust and profitable sales strategy. After all, selling requires a certain degree of skill combined with natural ability. Irrespective of the sales ability of the people in question, it is important to have a sales strategy to help guide yourself and the people selling your products or services.

3 Devious MLM – Network Marketing Approaches
You know the feeling of being deceived into doing something. This article explores three different approaches used by network marketers who intentionally mislead you into viewing their home based business / mlm opportunity.

Firing Clients: How Three Types of Female Entrepreneurs Handle It When Things Just Don’t Work Out
When it comes time for a business relationship to end, different business owners sever the bond in different ways. Whether they face the end with pragmatism, sadness or fear, sometimes all they can do is to cut the ties.

Stress and Sex: 5 Stressors that Can Put Your Libido on Hold
Some people are capable of doing many things well while under stress, but being in the mood for sex and/or feeling sexy usually isn’t one of them. Stress is pretty high up there as one of the top reasons for why couples are not having sex! Here are 5 common stressors that might be getting in the way of, or actually completely killing, your sex drive. And good news – there are solutions to each!

How to Do a Lousy Job at Business Networking Follow-Up
Neither the salesperson or the prospect wants to be inundated with follow-up that doesn't serve to advance any decision or relationship. More of a spiel, more talk about "me, me, me", less and less additional value will assure you not to get any response.

Top 25 Prerequisites for Successful Sales Training and Development
Before an inside or outside expert can help you develop your sales force, there are at least 25 milestones that must take place or the initiative will probably fail. Development has much less to do with content, curriculum, and methodology than it does with the person, or people who will do the developing.

When, if ever, is it time to quit building a relationship with a potential referral source?
I was recently asked this question on Twitter. It's a very interesting question. Referrals come from people with whom you have built relationships over a period of time. In some cases the relationships may take years to develop. So how do you know when to focus your efforts elsewhere?

CONNECTING IS NOT ENOUGH: Busting the Myth
This article originally appeared in The National Networker It’s time to shatter a few illusions now. I’m sorry but networking groups do not produce referrals. That may disappoint a few people who have spent a lot of time and money joining groups in the hope of generating new business. Hours spent at breakfast meetings, lunches and chatting over canapés when you could have been watching The Apprentice…..all wasted.

Do you feel lucky?
Luck has come up a lot in conversation in the last week or so. How much of our business success do we put down to good fortune and to what extent are we able to create our own luck?

Social media marketing - How to use Twitter to find prospects for your business
Do you consider using or are you using twitter to market your business? Twitter is growing rapidly and is now one of the most visited sites on the internet. Twitter is a wonderful social media site and has endless possibilities even dough it looks and is in fact really simple. There is a large amount of software available for Twitter, both payed and free and a lot of courses that claims to explode your following. If you learn how to use Twitter you can drive a huge amount of quality traffic to your site.

Autoresponders - One Of The Most Effective Online Business Tools
Many internet marketers make the mistake of not using their autoresponder properly to help establish an online presence and legitimize their business. By correctly using an autoresponder you can help take care of this problem.

6th of the 10 Kurlan Sales Competencies that are Key to Building a Sales Culture
SLOW DOWN TO SPEED UP Your salespeople can't wait to do the things at which they are: * most competent * most comfortable * having the most fun * in control * in the spot light The problem with all of that is with what they do: * present * demo * tell your story * provide capabilities * give references * do proposals * give quotes * use company resources and when they do it: * as soon as they can!

It's What You Don't Say that Runs the Show
I learned so much from my first life and business coach; lessons that I'm still using today in both my business and in my life as well as with my own coaching clients, some 20-plus years later. Now that's lasting value. (Thanks Judy B.) One of the most valuable lessons revolving around communication was the principle -- "It's what you don't say that runs the show." To say it a bit more accurately, it's those things we feel like we can't say for fear that we'll get into trouble with the other person that end up shaping the relationship and often in ways that ultimately are unhealthy for everyone involved.

I'm Dying -- But Not to Worry
What a way to start off an article -- "I'm dying but not to worry." Well, it's because as I approach my 60th Birthday I have noticed a new relationship evolving to life and to death. It started when I heard this past week that Dom DeLuise had died at the age of 75, and for the first time, I counted up the difference between his age and mine. And even though I'm not the greatest at math, it only took me a few minutes to figure out the difference was only 15 years.

The 600-pound Gorilla: How to Reduce Money Fights in a Relationship
Few issues bring out the worst in relationships and couples like money; in fact, it’s the number one reason couples fight. Couples rarely address their emotions associated with money, and so it usually becomes the 600-pound gorilla in the relationship. Here are a few tips to help you address your 600-pound gorilla:

Your Email Marketing Strategy in Review
Can you believe it’s November already? I’m not really sure how that happened, but it happened nonetheless. And while I’m always sad to see the Summer go, I love this time of year because it’s a great time to start preparing your 2010 marketing plan. But before you do that, you’ll need to evaluate which of your 2009 marketing strategies worked and which were not effective. Since email marketing is one of the best marketing strategies for increasing your online presence, you should be constantly evaluating it and making any and all improvements.

Only Losers Cut Their Prices
Discounting is for losers...In order to achieve the highest potential possible a salesperson needs to believe in their pricing as much as they believe in their selling skills.

Is Your Virtual Assistant Letting You Down: Sound Business Advice for Women Entrepreneurs
Hiring a virtual assistant or VA is like any relationship and nobody likes to be disappointed, especially when you’re investing in someone who is supposed to make your life easier. Don’t be afraid to expect the best. Here are three respectful, yet powerful tips on how you can nip an assistant problem in the bud, without losing sleep or feeling like you’ve suddenly turned into a raging diva.

Fixin' to Hunt Up Some Cash
If you need cash, whether for survival or to fund a new opportunity, where do you look? It's closer than you think.

How to gain Trust, Credibility and Leverage from your customers.
Gaining trust, credibility and leverage can be accomplished by speaking to your audience often and asking for their feedback

Why People Want to Punch Their MLM Network Marketing Business in the Face!
Are you getting results in your MLM network marketing business? Do you want to punch your MLM network marketing business in the face? If so, you are not alone. There are countless number of people failing online and in this article you will learn exactly why people feel that way and how to not fall into that 97% people who are failing in their business.

Can Social Networks provide Emotional Wealth?
The following is a copy of my response to a blog post by Ecademy’s Thomas Power which asked the question, “Can Social Networks provide Emotional Wealth?"

How to avoid MLM lead deprivation and have 50 people a day hunt you down
Every MLM person has been in lead deprivation at one point or another. You can buck the traditional methods of chasing people down, and attract people to you, and set yourself up as a leader in the process. There are a few simple steps that you can follow.

Are you interesting enough?
You don't demonstrate that you are genuinely interested in others by being totally self-focused. The mistake many businesses make is -everything they do and say is all about me, me, and me!

Speaking to Grow Your Business Part II: Create a Presentation That Sells
Speaking is one of the top ways to get new clients/customers. People get to know you and you instantly start building a trusted relationship. Now that’s the way to grow a business quickly! I made the following 3 mistakes when I first started putting together presentations. I don’t want you to do the same, so here we go!

What Can Online Marketing Do For You?
Online Marketing is one of the most effective ways to market your business in today's economy while accessing the number one source of traffic in the world.

Stress and your Mate
Whether you have a spouse, a domestic partner or just someone who is the current live-in love of your life, living with someone close can cause stress. Note, the 'can' not 'must'. Interacting with someone with whom you have that kind of relationship introduces a variety of potential problems, but those don't have to lead to for either party. Stress results when someone feels caught in a perceived, unresolvable conflict between "I must" and "I can't". They feel there is something they have to do, but are blocked from or don't have the resources to do.

I Have No Relationship Today With My Dad
There are many reasons for strained or broken relationships between parent and child. Damaged relationships are always painful to those involved. The good news is that relationships can be mended. The hard part is that you must initiate action that will lead to forgiveness and reconciliation. Here’s how.

Who Do You Think You Are?
The more you understand your authentic vision for yourself, the more successful you will be and the more effortless it will feel. Ask yourself these 10 questions to get started crafting your perfect vision.

3 Keys To Success Online!~ EXPOSE SECRET
Everyone who has an online business wants success online but few people ever do. Most likely these 3 keys to success online wasn't shared with them. Well you won't have to worry about falling in that 97% of people who fail online after you read this article because you'll know exactly what to do to guarantee your success online.

Do You Need Your Salespeople to Love and Respect You?
The sales manager I coached had some very human needs. When he connected with his salespeople, they shared details of their lives, plans for their weekends and he felt loved. When salespeople praised his coaching or said that his advice helped them on a sales call, he felt respected. And when he assured the higher-ups that good things were happening, he truely believed that business was on the way.

The Silent Treatment
Do you use the silent treatment to control? Are you at the other end of someone who punishes you with the silent treatment?

Are you ready for Sustainable Selling?
With the green agenda comes Sustainable Selling. More and more questions are being asked by many about how we can best manage this relationship now and for future generations? I recently attended and spoke at the 6th CIPS Australasia Annual Conference (peak industry body for the Procurement Profession) where Sustainability was well and truly on the agenda.

How To Say 'I Don't Know' With Confidence
No one knows the answer to every question. No matter how diligently you study up on your products or offer, there’s bound to come a time when you face a question that you can’t handle off the top of your head. Don’t become paralyzed by the need to know everything about your product or offer, you can’t know it all. Someone’s always going to ask that one question that makes you say to yourself, “I should have known that.”

5 Tips to Get Your Relationship Through the Holidays
A dirty little secret about the holidays is that many relationships do not survive them. Many couples break up during the holidays because all the stress gets under their skin and they can’t take it anymore. Below are five easy and highly effective tips to help get your relationship through the holidays.

Is Continuous Improvement More Important Than Results?
Could a focus on continuous improvement prove more useful than concentrating just on the results we seek?

Elements of a Sales Funnel and How to Optimize It
The front-end Products are the first products you sell. They may not even make a profit. You need at least one, preferably two or three. These can cost anywhere from nothing to hundreds of dollars, but they need to be as broadly appealing as possible. One method is to offer a very low-priced product that is an extremely good value, something that will blow the customer away.

How to Get Results in Your Network Marketing Business Opportunity! ~HAVE SUCCESS TODAY
Everyone wants to get results in their network marketing business opportunity, but few know how. That is why 97% of people online are failing. Well I'm going to share steps with you in this article that will guarantee your success. Enjoy this article by Omari Taylor and discover how to get results in your network marketing opportunity.

Sales Coaching – The Free Consultation is Dead as a Sales Prospecting Introduction
If you’re a professional service provider one of the things you’ve been told you should do to get clients is offer a free consultation, review, or session of some sort. Once upon a time when this was a new idea it was very effective. It no longer works...

Short and Simple Copyrighting Tips
Since copywriting is another form of sales, learn how to sell. Whenever you have the chance, read books on selling. This will make you see life and the way you approach you future customer or you do you marketing completely differently. You will also find below 5 short and simple copywriting tips which will allow you to achieve a sales person or good internet marketer state of mind.

Make Up Instead of Break Up: Holiday Relationship Tips
Sometimes holiday stress can be too much for a relationship. If you feel your relationship is teetering on the edge, here are five effective and very do-able relationship tools you can use now to prevent a relationship break up.

How to be interesting
When you get the opportunity to speak with and meet a new customer, don't make the conversation all about you, make it about them. What makes you more interesting in business than your competitors is your capacity and willingness to be genuinely interested in customers. Furthermore, this interest should always transcend into a valuable relationship that benefits them in a unique or compelling way.

Six Keys to Achieving Success
I feel there are certain things you can do to help propel you forward in achieving your life's desires. None of them are particularly earth shattering. You have probably heard of all of them. But do you use them? Listed below are some things that have helped me over the years:

Why Do Kids Sell Better Than Adults?
How come as a kid you could sell your parents on almost anything? Now you are having trouble selling potential customers (a.k.a. prospects) on your products and services even though you know they need them. So what gives?

How A NICHE Market Strategy Approach Increases Sales
Much is written about having a niche to improve your selling success. A niche is a narrow target market where there are few competitors and allows you to be the Red Jacket in a Sea of Gray Suits. Use this acronym to help you strengthen your niche in your marketplace.

Increase Small Business Sales – Stop Asking for Referrals
Why would I tell you to stop asking for referrals when every sales “trainer”, sales manager, or sales mentor you’ve ever met tells you to ask for referrals? Oddly enough many commonly held beliefs are based on myths rather than facts...

Marketing Strategies -7 Ways To Overcome The Myth That You Have To Be "Pushy" To Succeed
Think that marketing is all about being aggressive? Not at all! This article gives you some great tips on how to overcome the myth and make marketing work for you.

Closing the Sale: Assume the Close, But Never the Reason
There are certainly many techniques and approaches involved in completing a sale, but closing is not a stand-alone activity. Even worse, a seller who attempts to "close the sale" too aggressively without properly executing the entire selling process can do more harm than good. This mistake is often due to one dangerous assumption...

How to Guarantee Internet Marketing Sales! ~GET RESULTS FAST
Making Internet marketing sales is something many people online want to do but fail to do, time and time again. Most were just never told the steps I'm going to share with you in this article. Enjoy this article by Omari Taylor and learn exactly how to guarantee Internet marketing sales.

Dig Deeper For A Shorter Sales Cycle
You can shorten your sales cycles and close business faster in spite of the economy. it's up to you to avoid.......

"I'm a Relationship Salesperson"
Are you really a relationship salesperson - or do you just think you are? This article will help you decide, and help you really be a relationship salesperson.

C-Level Selling Tip 6: Networking, Use Your Resources
Everyone needs more business, and the best way to get more is to network your way through the doors to the C-level offices. Learn about networking with this C-level selling tip.

Millionaire Internet Marketing Basics! ~SUCCESS SECRETS EXPOSED
Every marketer must know the Internet marketing basics to be successful online. But some people have no clue what they are. Well that is what I'm going to share with you. Enjoy this article by Omari Taylor and discover the Internet marketing basics to guarantee you success online.

Article Marketing : How To Brand Yourself Inexpensively
Article Marketing is a simple , effective low cost method to bring very high quality visitors to your website. You can establish yourself as an authority in the industry , and build trust with your audience through articles. You don’t have to be an expert writer to have an effective article campaign.

3 Tools Every Serious Online Marketers Needs
Lead Capture Page, Personal WordPress Blog, Autoresponder. If you pay close attention to all the serious internet marketers they have these 3 tools integrate into their business. These tools are what separates the serious professional from the rest of the crowd. They are very inexpensive and very simple to integrate with your online business.

Losing Clients: Two Types of Women Entrepreneurs, Two Types of Responses
As today’s economy continues to take its toll on small businesses everywhere, losing clients can be more damaging than ever. A new study reveals that different types of women entrepreneurs have different approaches to running a business and dealing with everyday business challenges. This article details how two different types of women entrepreneurs are likely to respond to the loss of a client – along with insights for building business resilience and moving ahead.

Belief and success
Just one in a small series of development pointers to help further along your home business or other marketing ventures. These are some of the exact principalss I follow daily to insure my success. Not only key to your business but any walk of life no matter the career path you have chosen.

Relationship Building for Professionals
Building relationships is the first step to building a successful practice. How do you begin to build a list of referral sources? Where do you start? This article presents some ideas to create your own referral source list.

The Power Is In The Follow Up
Many small businesses forget that, after a sale, their customers want to know that the sale is not the end of the relationship. Follow up and follow through will ensure that most a small business will retain customers and encourage ongoing purchasers. I remember reading somewhere, that keeping an existing customer costs 7 times less than gaining a new customer. I'm not certain about the metric, but the principle is correct. Follow up is more than just a promise on paper. If you sell a physical item that requires maintenance, your customers should have the confidence that your business will be there to provide it. If your business provides direct, or personal, service - take the opportunities presented when providing that service to ensure the customer is happy and whether they have other needs your business can fulfill.

Exactly How To Make Money Fast At Home! ~STEPS TO A FORTUNE
So many people want to make money fast at home. Making money fast at home really is not that difficult if you know the proper steps to take. An that is exactly what I'm going to share with you in this article. Enjoy this article by Omari Taylor and really understand how to make money fast at home.

My sales director wants equity - should I give it to them?
The best sales directors that I know are entrepreneurial by nature. They thrive on risk and strive to create a substantial upside. Personally, I would never take on a sales director role without the potential for ownership, but that's just me. I know the value I am capable of creating and I habitually work towards a long-term plan - I believe this far outweighs most salary and bonus only roles.

7 Ways to Respond To a Controlling Person
One way people respond to feeling out of control is by becoming controlling. Here are some helpful reminders when dealing with a controlling person

Profitable Online Business Ideas and the Recession; Building Relationships
In the online internet based industry it is very easy to forget that we are still in the people business. People by the millions from all over the world want to create their own profitable online business. They all have fears and concerns. Which system do I choose? Which MLM is more reputable? The list goes on and on. But the biggest fear or concern that they all have in common is; the need to be associated with caring and honest people.

C-Level Selling Tip 4 -- Relationships with C’s Produces Business, but You Don’t Have a Relationship
Relationships at C’s and high levels are easy to attain if you know how. Let me explain.

How To On Twitter (Day 2) – Finding Followers, Managing DMs, and Automating Followers
3 How To On Twitter Steps – Day 2: (still not tweeting): 1. Repeat Day 1: Find 3 People, sift through 5 pages of their Followers to find people you’d like to Follow, and Follow. 2. Begin using TweetDeck.com for Direct Messages (DMs) 3. Begin using TweetLater.com to automate your Followers message(s).

The Do's and Dont's of Influencing Others
Different forms of influencing Others.

Doing Something Right Once
Want to know the secret to saving time, saving aggravation, achieving more and making more money? It's doing tasks that bring residual results.

How To Guarantee Success In A Internet Marketing Opportunity! ~3 SIMPLE STEPS
How do you guarantee your success in a Internet marketing opportunity? Plenty of failing marketers are still looking for that answer. Well that's exactly what I am going to share with you in this article. Enjoy this article by Omari Taylor and learn exactly how to guarantee your success in a Internet marketing opportunity.

Design on a Shoestring
As a marketing professional you will be not surprised to read that I am, well at least partially, obsessed with design. Yes, I like to have things looking right and in place. However, does ‘looking good’ make a real difference to bottom line results? When I started the Next Marketing business I was convinced first hand.

Keys for Success and Wealth (part 5) Giving
Focus on selling and you will do well, but it is easier to become wealthy than to do well and you can do that by giving much more than you expect to receive.

Speakers, Coaches, and Experts: Write to Sell During a Recession
Money is tight, but that doesn’t mean people don’t need you and your solutions. In fact, I’d be willing to bet that the people in your market need the guidance and insight you provide now more than ever. But in a recession, it takes a little more encouragement to get people to help themselves by buying your products and services. In other words, you may need to fine-tune your marketing.

6 Qualities of a Great Leader in a Virtual Team
There are many benefits of going with virtual teams. One of those is that virtual team members produce projects for the company, locally, nationally and internationally, not to mention the cost savings.

Mirror Mirror on the Wall: The Secret & Most Effective Relationship Tool
Mirrors reveal truths that we are not always willing to see when we look into them. And the mirror is – beyond a shadow of a doubt – the secret, most effective relationship tool you must have that holds the key for rekindling love and romance in your relationship.

Speak to Me of Love
Dovid Grossman, a coach and father of nine, recently told me that his father and he had fought constantly through his growing up years. Through it all his mother was the referee. Finally when Dovid was 17 years old he sat down with his father and said, “I want to have a close relationship with you.” He was flabbergasted when his father said, “I’ve tried to do that my whole life but I don’t know how.”

Deadly Sin#7B: One-size-fits-all Sales Pitches
There are two basic weaknesses to one-size-fits-all sales pitches: 1. Failure to appeal to different types of prospects 2. Failure to discriminate among different types of prospects with the same general interests, but who have different "social styles"

Social Networking 101 - Effective Online Social Networking
Are you into social networking? Do you belong to one or more social networking sites, e.g. MySpace, Twitter, or Facebook? 6 tips listed below will help you manage your time and get more networking done in the shortest time possible.

Manifesting the Best of Both Worlds
We often don't realize how we compromise our life enjoyment by believing in limited possibilities. This is your official invite (with tutorial) to drop the constraints and enjoy the best of both worlds!

Entrepreneurs' Millionaire Mindset - The New Psychology of Success
We are programmed to avoid change (if it is too hard), not make waves on any given situation and afraid to do what is best for us, even when there is no other choice. Many times our mind is faced with the "What If"? We say what if it doesn't work out in this relationship before it goes to the next level.

3 Best Ways To Hire An SEO Consultant
Hiring just the right person to guide you search engine optimization strategy is rather important. In fact, if you do nothing else this year to build your online business, hiring the right SEO consultant can ensure the long term growth of your web site in both traffic and revenue.

How to Get People to Join Your Business Using Autoresponder! ~SECRET TO A FORTUNE
Plenty of people know an autoresponder is very important to the success of your business. But few people can use it effectively to get people to join thier business. An elite group of millionaire online entrepreneurs shared the secret with me and now I'm going to share it with you. Enjoy this short article by Omari and learn how to get people to join your business using autoresponder.

5 things to look for when researching legitimate home based business opportunities
You've made the hard decision of starting a home based business but don't know where to start in your research, I will outline the 5 things that you should look for when researching legitimate home based business opportunities to try to save you some time in your endeavors. This list will not be all inclusive, but are things that you need to definitely look at in order to find a legitimate home based business opportunity.

"Learn to Let Go"
Sometimes you need to stand back and let your employees struggle through the difficult times in order to build them and develop them. Find out why it is kinder to do this than to help them through.

The Obama approach to change
We have a complex relationship with change. On the on the one hand we desperately want it, on the other we desperately resist it.

Back End Sales The Road To Creating Massive Wealth Online
What is a back end sale? This a question that can be answered by the way McDonalds and Walmart, billion dollar companies to say the least ,structure their marketing efforts for maximum profitability. If these guys are doing it, we as internet business owners, need to follow their lead and implement these strategies for creating massive wealth online.

The Company Your Keep
People perceive us in part based on who we hang around with, who we point to as 'friends' and associates.

8 things to do with an article
If you’re going to take the time and trouble to write an article, I’m a big believer that you should try to re-use it as many times as you possibly can. Apart from the reason you’ve written it in the first place, which presumably one of the reasons is to help your build your credibility as an expert, here are eight other things you can do once you’ve completed your article:

"Speaking with Good Intent"
The next time you're in a meeting or speaking one-to-one, take a moment to think about what you say before opening your mouth. So much of the misunderstandings that happen between people are because we don't think before we speak. Ask yourself, "am I speaking with good intent?", and all your communications will lead to positive outcomes.

"Do you Come Here Often?" The ten best (and worst) ways to start a networking conversation
Following a recent comment on my blog, I promised to suggest some good icebreakers to start conversations at networking events. Rather than just share my own thoughts, I thought I would poll a few of you and find out how you go about it. I asked the question on Twitter, on my Facebook page and through my newsletter. Thank you for all of the responses, with a diverse and interesting range of approaches and stories being sent in.

Be Present and Listen
Listening is an art and successful people listen and learn from others by mastering this skill.

The Many Faces of Rest
There is something very powerful about the word, 'rest'. In its many different faces, this word (accompanied by a body sense) can significantly influence the quality of our lives, thereby, supporting us in fully claiming Life.

Punching Yourself Until They Give Up
The midlife transition is all about transforming your life from the externally-motivated value system of the adult to the internally- (that means spiritually-) motivated life that characterizes the mature individual. One key factor in this transformation — a factor that is way too often neglected — is doing a moral housecleaning.

Are You Giving Customer Reasons Not To Do Business With You?
Doing business today is not easy, I recognize that, but sometimes I wonder if we are making it far harder than it has to be. Are we really sure that every time someone wants to do business with us, we are making it as easy as possible? Are we sure there are no obstacles in the way, or we are not missing opportunities to move a relationship forward or close a sale? Given the choice, customers take the path of least resistance. If you want to grow your business, then you need to make sure doing business with you is as easy and as pleasurable an experience as possible.

3 Simple Steps To Effective Online Marketing Videos! ~CASH MAGNET
There is a huge amount of people online who don't know how to make effective online marketing videos. There are only 3 simple steps to follow that can create tons of sales for you but if you do not know them you are missing out and your videos will not be producing at their maximum potential. An elite group of millionaire Internet marketers shared these 3 simple steps with me and now in this article I want to share them with you. So read this short article by Omari that if applied will definitely explode your business.

The Five Stages of Partnership
All partnerships, and all relationships for that matter, go through five predictable stages. Knowing these stages is like having a map that will help you to accurately assess where you are in your partnerships, see where you have been and where you can go. This will also allow you to deal effectively with the particular concerns of the stage you are in.

Successful Relationships: Creating Agreements That Work
People yearn for relationships they can trust. They want to be able to depend on people. They want relationships characterized by ease, clarity and harmonious cooperation. But, is there any adult who hasn't felt let down or betrayed by someone who didn’t live up to his or her agreements?

All Opportunities Are Not Created Equal
When reviewing an opportunity, most sales manages will ask about the odds to close. When asked about odds to close, most sales reps have a ready answer. Most often, it's wrong; based on some mystical gut feel, but it sure does makes everyone feel better - like authentic planning, prioritizing and time management actually occurred.

3 Reason’s to Invest In Sales Management Training
If you want to thrive in difficult times here are 3 reasons why you should invest in sales management training. Your sales force is your company’s most expensive promotional resource. Yet too many sales organizations operate well below their potential. Your front line sales managers are the people who can unlock the potential in your sales organization

Your Community of Success
One of your most powerful tools in creating the life and business of your dreams is to build a community that will love and support you every step of the way.

Yoda needs to follow his own advice!
Decisions come from decision makers and salespeople have to get the conversations going with the top people. Oops, I didn't do that, what happened...

Are You Confused About Social Networking?
Which Social Networking site do you chose, how many social networking sites should you be active on? Questions, questions, and do you know the answers? Why not start at the very beginning and learn what works for you?

What is Basket Analysis ?
Basket Analysis is a modelling technique based upon the theory that if you buy a certain group of items, you are more (or less) likely to buy another group of items.

Leadership Coaching – Is It Right for You and Your Business
Within the last decades of the 20th century, coaching began to appear as an asset to help individuals successfully navigate through the quagmire of changes taking place at work and home. The old system of following the leader started being transformed by leaders teaching others self-leadership within the circle of influence of the individual. Leadership development from the bottom up began to spring up to create teams of leaders.

Loyalty and Leadership - 8 Ways to Earn The Loyalty of Your Employees
Loyalty, like respect and trust, is not automatically yours just because you're a manager. You have to earn it. Why is it important in your role and what can you do to start earning it?

3 Ways to De-Stress Your Life & Your Relationship in 2011
Many of us make a toast to health and happiness in the New Year. One great way to improve your health in 2011 is to reduce stress. Here are three ways to de-stress your life and relationship this year.

How long does it take to make money on the internet ?
That is arguably the most asked question to me as a professional internet marketer.The answer is easy. The same amount of time that it takes to build any other business.Some people might get lucky and make it faster BUT you should prepare yourself for at least a few months or even years.

How to Convert More Sales
As a salesperson, it’s always helpful to have a long list of prospects. However, if you don’t have a well thought out plan for converting them into customers, you are simply setting yourself up for failure. A low conversion rate is a common problem for salespeople, but one that is correctable with understanding the steps to take through the entire sales process. These steps are easily implemented with little or no cost and can make a tremendous difference in converting a higher percentage of prospects into customers.

Keeping the "Human" In Human Resources
How to remain grounded and recognize that human resources is not about numbers, it's about people.

Top 5 Strategies to Improve Your Sales Approach
So you want to win more sales? The local economy is down. Contacts and leads are drying up. More and more competitors are entering an already tight market. What can you do?

360 Degree Appraisals
An overview on the 360 Degree Appraisals

Say Yes wisely and increase your confidence and enthusiasm for life.
Is there something you would really like to do, but you keep putting it off? Do you ever hear yourself say..... 'Yes, when I have enough money I will....' .''Yes, when the kids are off my hands I will.....' 'Yes, I will do it! But, I'm too busy right now.... 'Yes, I will.... I will... I will..........' ? It's time you quit the excuses and say 'Yes' to something which will make you happier and more satisfied with your life.

3 Easy Ways to Shape-up Your Relationship This New Year
Did you make a New Year's Resolution? There’s no reason why you can’t make a resolution dedicated to your relationship. Let’s make 2011 the best year ever for your relationship. Here are three great ways to get your relationship in shape.

Getting past the Gate Keeper
This time of the year many people are trying to get back into the swing of things after their Christmas break. It's about this time that many sales people begin their prospecting efforts in earnest and many people are back from leave. It is as good a time as any to prospect. So as it's the New Year, I thought we could take a fresh look at some old issues. One of the most common complaints I hear from sales people time and time again is ‘How do I get around the gate keeper?'

Broken Promises & Bagging the Competition
Nothing irks customers more than sales people overstating their capabilities and making claims and promises they cannot keep or live up to. It's the fastest way to break trust and leave customers doubting you and your business. Making grand claims with little or no substance is foolish at best. In today's networked world, many people have access to information and can check pretty quickly whether what you claim is true or not. So can you do what you claim you do?

How to build your Confidence
Wouldn't it be great to be able to go through every day feeling good about the decisions you make? Some people just seem to be full of self confidence, they have true belief in them selves. They are happy and fulfilled living the lives they choose wiithout fear or regret. How do they do it?

Better Cash Flow – 11 Ways Small Businesses Conserve Cash
Let’s talk about better cash flow – how to hold onto and conserve the cash you have on hand. This is not about cutting expenses. This is about holding onto your cash for as long as possible.

Does Your Client Pay Slow?
If your clients pay slowly, here's how to collect client pay faster and with less effort.

RADAR: THE CONSULTATIVE SELLING TOOL TO UTILIZE YOUR NATURAL STRENGTHS
Uncover the prospect's need while establishing trust and credibility.

How to Produce a Great Electronic Newsletter
As marketing tools go, it's hard to beat a great electronic newsletter, but it may be even harder to figure out what makes a newsletter great. I've subscribed to electronic newsletters since the first day I got an email account back in 1994, and even though the technology has changed dramatically, what made a great electronic newsletter then still makes a great electronic newsletter today.

The Most Powerful Free Marketing Methods! ~100% Profit Secrets
The 3 most powerful free marketing methods are very simple to use and very profitable if used right. Yet some marketers have no idea what they are or how powerful they can be when used properly. Discover in this short article by Omari what they are and how huge of an impact they can have on your business.

Where Does Courage Live?
Courage is something that people talk about but they don't necessarily know when they're doing it. And the reason for that is because in that moment, the one requiring courage, they aren't aware that they need to exhibit it; rather, they're busy being courageous.

Lose This 5 Letter Word to Win More Sales
Had you ever considered that one five letter word can actually make you sound like everyone else?

Emotional Dependency vs. Emotional Freedom
Are you emotionally dependent? Has this wreaked havoc in your relationships? Emotional freedom is possible for you! Discover what causes emotional dependency and the wonderful results of emotional freedom.

Monitoring Productivity
One of the key elements of productivity is observation.The reality is that people perform better when they are being monitored and observed. Monitoring work being doing also allows use to assess the value of that work, eliminate time wasting activities where appropriate giving us time to focus on the important value adding tasks.

Selling Success Marries the Sales Approach to a Proven Process
A recent poll by a respected sales guru suggested that during your first meeting with a potential customer (a.k.a. prospect) you can begin your presentation after you have established rapport. Maybe that works for you, but given that only 2% of all sales are made on the first contact, this sounds like a recipe for disaster.

CONNECTING IS NOT ENOUGH: It’s a Question of Trust
It wasn’t what he expected to hear, that’s for sure! I was half way through a 1-2-1 with a new networking connection when I surprised him. “I don’t trust you”, I said.

Faith, Hope And Insanity - The Three Reasons People Turn To Life Coaching
People come to coaching for a variety of issues. Find out why clients issues can be defined into these three areas and how a coach can help a client in each of the categories.

Social Media EXPOSED: How YOU Can Use Social Media To Get More New Customers NOW
Unless you have been living under a rock for the past five years, you’ve no doubt heard the term “social media.” At its core social media is a platform for creating relationships.

How I Don’t Know Can Increase Sales & Build Customer Loyalty
Are you afraid of the I do not know response to a customer’s question. Have you ever considered this an opportunity to build a loyal customer and not a threat to your sales ego?

How Playing Chinese Telephone Is Costing You Sales
Is your sales team engaged in playing Chinese Telephone? Read how this childhood game may be costing you sales.

How A Doubting Thomas Affects Your Ability to Increase Sales
With the sales process for many now involving more than one decision maker, this increases the odds for dealing with the “doubting Thomas.” Invariably one of those involved has not been totally convinced that you have earned the sale.

How You May Be Losing Sales Because You Are Pushing Your Prospects Instead of Letting Them Pull You
Is your sales approach all about pushing your prices, products or proposals onto your potential customers? Maybe it is time to consider another, more effective one?

5 Tips to Improve Your Follow-Up Sales Skills While Building Customer Loyalty
Are your following sales skills building customer loyalty or inadvertently turning off customers and reducing sales? These 5 tips may help you increase sales, improve customer relationships and demonstrate why you are the Red Jacket in the Sea of Gray Suits.

How a Autoresponder Can Make You Rich! - Fast Money Magnet Revealed
I love autoresponders. They are amazing and can drastically boost your income. But there are things you must know to be successful at doing that. In this article I discuss why autoresponders are so important and how you can use it to cash in big checks.

How to Make Money Blogging!- Untold Secret Revealed
A lot of marketers do not know that blogging can put tons of cash in their pocket. But if you do know that, then the next thing is, how do I blog effectively to make money? Learn exactly that in the short article written by Omari.

How to Get Tons of Cash With Video Marketing! Cash Secret Revealed
There are a lot of marketers with questions about video marketing. Why is video marketing so effective? How do I actually use video marketing to get tons on cash in my pocket? Well find the answers here in this short article.

How to get business from social networking
Social networking a.k.a. the likes of Twitter, Facebook, Ecademy, LinkedIn and so on have become the new marketing buzzwords. Everyone is interested in finding out about them and knowing how to use them to get business in through the door.

Let Go of Your Need to Be Right
An article of 1412 words describing the importance of valuing human life, feelings and relationships over your idea and the need to be right.

Commitment: Your First Step in ANY Successful Endeavor
How to make commitments that stick and move you forward in your life and business.

Relationship Breakup: Heartbreak and Healing
Are you suffering from the heartbreak of a broken relationship? Do you feel like you can't live without your partner? Discover the likely cause of this heartbreak and how to heal it.

Customers are begging for discounts but we don't want to drop our prices. What selling strategies should I use?
If a significant number or customers are begging for discounts, I would be inclined to explore the reasons behind the requests to understand what is actually motivating your customers.

How to Feel Happy at Work--7 Secrets of a "Thank God It's Monday" Workplace
You can love your job and feel happy at work...habits that can change everything about the culture of your workplace.

Relationship Intentions
February is here and it's Valentines Day. On this auspicious day many of us buy our sweethearts a gift, do something special or go out for dinner. We celebrate the day treating our loved ones with special care. What about the rest of the year? How do you treat your loved one?

Marketing Insensitives for 2009
Approximately two years ago I first wrote about “Marketing Insensitives.” At the time, I had received a call from a telemarketer offering me some “marketing insensitives” to purchase a product. Yes, she really said this! She was not being clever; she just couldn’t pronounce “incentive.” But, Marketing Insensitives do exist! They are the unfortunate, not-thought-through, ridiculous, dumb things that businesses do that drive customers away. Here is another:

2009 Cold Calling Checklist
If we listen to the media, 2009 is shaping up to be a tough year. People are losing jobs and homes and businesses are struggling. A tough economy, however, does not mean that no one will ever buy anything or that no business at all will be done in 2009. What it does mean is that business owners and sales professionals will need to adjust tactics to survive: They will need to become more proactive and more efficient at finding new opportunities.

Real Estate Marketing Strategies - 3 Mistakes to Watch Out for When Asked, "So What Do You Do?"
Have you been struggling with getting more clients, but not sure how to market yourself? This article gives you a great method on how to handle the introductions.

What's That Prospect Thinking?
Even the young gun sales star is in danger of becoming a dinosaur if they fail to reexamine their sales approach. The presentation that earned you a trip to Madrid two years ago may land you on Monster.com next year. Can you morph your presentation and sales strategy?

Coaching: Rules of Engagement
This article takes a strong view on coaching and the steps to effectively engage.

Networking With The Media
7 tips to keep you and your business top of mind with the media.

DO YOU NEED A RELATIONSHIP TO BE HAPPY?
Regardless of if you are single out of choice or if you are in between relationships, you can create and enjoy a fulfilling life on your own.

Finding a job on the internet
When looking for a new job the internet is an obvious place to start. There are plenty job boards and recruitment agencies to choose from. Here we offer some great tips to assist you succeed in your job search.

Please Stop Calling it Coaching!
Leading, managing, teaching, and mentoring are all important but lets please not confuse them with coaching. In these times of great upheaval we need real business leaders. These leaders need all of the coaching we can provide them. Let's not lose the moment and the power of what's possible by watering down the practice of authentic coaching.

How to REALLY Connect With Your Customers on Their Terms to Build Relationships and Generate More Sales
Knowing how to engage your readers with attention grabbing headlines is important and at the same time, it's not enough to really create a relationship, build trust and eventually win a customer or client.

The Beauty of Backend Sales
Virtually every business relies on backend sales; affiliate marketing is no different. While backend selling is a common practice for merchants, most affiliate never consider it. However, incorporating it into your marketing procedure can greatly increase your sales.

2 Ways to Deal With Difficult Staff
This article shows that, if you get to know each member of your team much better, concentrate on what they do well, then you're less likely to have difficult staff.

Marriages may end but families are forever
Our marriage was falling apart and we completely hated each other. Our child's world was crumbling, too. It was at this exact time when we needed to work constructively as parents.

The Danger of Life Patterns
What are your life patterns? Why would you want to know? The importance of this article is in the explanation of how our life patterns determine our success or failure. If you want more prosperity in life and business, make sure you start with changes your life patterns to match those desires.

HOW CAN A LIFE COACH SUPPORT ME IN GETTING WHAT I WANT ???
What do you want? What do you really really want? When was the last time you asked yourself that question? Most of us are wrapped up in the day to day of our lives, and like a hamster, we run and run as fast as we can, panting and puffing, making a lot of noise running within his wheel, only to come out to have a look around and see that everything is the same, in exactly the same place. Nothing has really changed. From time to time, it is just necessary to stop and ask ourselves, what we want and if we are "running" in the direction of our dreams, and unlike the poor little hamster, going nowhere!

Should You Use Long Or Short Email Copy In Your Sales Communications?
Long or short email copy? Here's how to decide.

How to Write Better Job Descriptions
I never understood why job descriptions were such banal documents with no structure, but a laundry list of task-driven responsibilities instead – responsibilities that pretty much look the same from one organization to another. That makes no sense. They’re more than that. Or, they could be. Meanwhile, what they shouldn’t be are generic copy/paste instruments borrowed from the Internet or someone else’s workplace. That approach deprives a company of its originality. No, rather their contents should show a relationship to the larger organization, so that the person who occupies the role actually understands his or her relationship to the larger organization.

It’s Not What is Your Most Valuable Asset, but Who!
Your relationship with your customers is the only asset you have that can be kept safe from every threat to your profits and made to appreciate every year. It’s more than a list of customer names and information. It’s the relationship you cultivate with your customers. Are you letting your largest asset shrivel up? If you do you’re losing money.

How To Integrate Your Online Networking with In-Person Events for Best Results
Many entrepreneurs who network with other business professionals should consider an integrated approach to networking. For best results, make sure your online presence matches your in-person efforts.

‘My Goals are in My Head’
Are you one of those people who know that goals are important but you just seem to balk at writing them down? You have decided they are firmly rooted in your mind. They will be okay there so you don't need to put them on paper, right? • You just started a new home business and you think that with all your other learning, the goals can just be done ‘in your head.’ • You are not new to your business and have just decided that for, you, personally, writing your goals doesn't really match your personality. You just do things differently. • You believe that the actual writing down of goals doesn't really help you get there any sooner. • You believe that writing down goals doesn't keep you focused.

Meeting with people- Figure out how you might be able to work together
Three weeks ago, I started talking about an important part of your Marketing and Branding Strategy is to meet with people, usually one-on-one. After you have established rapport and took turns talking about each other’s business, it is time to determine if you may be able to work together.

What to do with all your business cards?
How many business cards have you gathered since you’ve been in business? I’ve seen business owners with hundreds if not thousands of business cards stored in card boxes, in jacket pockets, stapled to diaries and contact details scribbled on bits of paper.

The Difference Between Provocative Selling and Baseline Selling
In the wake of a recent article by the authors of Provocative Selling in the Harvard Business Review an attendee challenged me to defend Baseline Selling. Since it was in the HBR, this attendee believed it had to be the better way to sell...

When Less is More - Why Working Less Hours Can Mean Greater Productivity
Long hours have become common in America, but are the extra hours adding up to extra productivity? Not really. Here's why.

Don't Let Social Media Give You a Bad Hangover, Says Leading Recruiter
Star headhunter and author of Work It! How to Get Ahead, Save Your Ass and Land a Job in Any Economy! Allison Hemming recently walked Relationship Masters Academy members through the steps to make their brand scream "hire me!" Chief among her advice was to pay attention to what you communicate through social media. Here's her top six rules to avoid a bad social media hangover.

Connect the dots. Use Your Web Site to Make Your Ads Work Harder.
Right now in Canada, almost 85% of the population uses the Internet and it’s safe to say this number will continue to expand. So why wouldn’t you use your web site to support the advertising you do in all other media? You do have a web site, right?

First Time Buyers: Bright Side of Slumping Real Estate Prices
Expert home stager, Staging Diva, discusses how slumping real estate prices makes a great situation for first time home buyers and why home staging is so important in this market.

Follow Up is Free and Profitable
Looking for ways to increase sales without increasing expenses? Follow up with the people and prospects you know. Now is the time to be persistent, systematic, and supportive of those who have an interest in your product and service.

How To Write A Really Great Marketing Letter That Makes Readers Take Action
The problem with many articles is that they do not have a Call To Action. Your article should advance the sales process by motivating readers to do something. This article shows you how to do that.

How To Write A Compelling Marketing Letter That Actually Gets Read. Part 2
This article focuses will show you how to make sure that your entire marketing letter gets read. Even by the most uninterested prospects.

The Benefits of Getting a Toll Free Number for Your Business
Much of the success of your business depends on your image and the professionalism you project. Toll free numbers attract customers to your business because they give it an air of professionalism. They also increase the customer’s confidence in the security of financial transactions with your company.

How to Earn Respect at the Office
Many struggles at work can be attributed to one major symptom: a lack of respect from your co-workers, subordinates or supervisors. But, if you feel there is a lack of respect, how do you go about regaining or earning that trust from those in your workplace? Do you go around demanding that others respect you because of your title or position?

Bridges and Boundaries
In every human relationship, there will be either a series of bridges or a series of boundaries. Bridges are the trust emotions that link us to others. Boundaries are the distrust emotions that create barriers of perceived protection around us. Both bridges and boundaries will be tested by those we relate to as soon as they are established.

Business-like Billing
Learning how to bill professionally is just as important as knowing how much to bill.

Can Social Media be a value proposition for you and your customers?
Today I had a meeting with our external online team to present a Social Media strategy for one of our small business programs. I was basically told that Social Media cannot be used as a value proposition for our small business clients. What I have learned over my experience over the last 10 years is to never discount new ways of thinking.

Personal Accountability
This Article explores the significance that personal accountability plays in the workplace. What becomes apparent to the reader are the people within their organisations who completely lack this skill and the repercussions of that. Conversely the benefits of those who excel at this skill is explored and identified. This is a must see for any leader of any team who wishes to see top performance within their workplace.

Quiz: How Healthy Is Your Relationship with Money?
Money—the lack of it, the fear of losing it, the dread of not having enough—tops the list of concerns of many people these days. We’re more debt-ridden than any generation before. Some of us tie ourselves up with such notions as “Having money and leading a spiritual life are contradictions.” We let our feelings of scarcity color our decisions.

Is Something Weighing You Down?
In any professional relationship, issues inevitably arise from time to time that have the potential to create tension and conflict. It’s not the issues themselves that are the main cause for relationship breakdown but how you go about resolving them. Many of us struggle to effectively speak up about the issues that cause feelings of resent, frustration or downright anger, with the end result that what isn’t talked out gets acted out … in cheap shots, innuendos, moodiness or the “silent treatment," but these things often worsen the problem.

Make a Huge Leap to Internet Home Based Business Success with Social Sites
There is a wide array of social sites that you can go to for business and networking. Instead of focusing on buying ads and getting your message out there, start focusing on building relationships so you can start building up your internet home based business.

Leadership Tip - Stop Choking Dreams With Fear & Doubt
Most people walk around with submerged dreams filled with fear and doubt. We all have dreams of something better: A better career, a better relationship, a better environment, a better lifestyle, a better financial portfolio, or whatever we want to improve in our life. Just because we want something better doesn’t necessarily mean there is something wrong with what you have - it just means you are following the natural course of life. You are meant to evolve and grow. Nothing, nothing stays stagnate. Yet most people keep trying to get something better using the same thoughts and skills from the past.

The Power of Hope
Did you know that the bumblebee should not be able to fly? Based on its size, weight, and shape of its body in relationship to the total wing span, a flying bumblebee is aerodynamically impossible. The bumblebee, being ignorant of scientific data, goes ahead and flies anyway, making honey every day. Ignore the sting of the past and replace it with hope for a brighter future. If you do, you will be able to achieve things everyone else thinks are impossible. Keep your hopes high and you will fly to new heights!

Entrepreneur vs. Small Business Owner—Why You Should Care
If you run your company (or career) from a place that is what you think you “should” or are “supposed to” do, not from what is right for you, it may be a very bumpy ride. Knowing the key differences between being an entrepreneur and small business owner should help guide you down the right path:

Efficient Ordering
Ordering is a critical part of maintaining a lean and efficient inventory for your store. A few simple best practices can help you keep track of this to save time and money.

Making Money On Internet - 5 Tips To Finding A Profitable Niche
Find a niche, is it really that hard to do or do you think there are niches out there just waiting to be exploited? Niche seems to be the ‘keyword’ amongst internet marketers when teaching newbies about making money on the internet. So I thought I’d do some research and find out internet marketer’s definition of a niche and the best way to find a profitable one.

March Forward for a New & Improved Relationship
The arrival of March signals that spring is just around the corner - the season for renewal and new beginnings. Here are three steps you can take to throw out the old stuff that has slowly but surely crept into your relationship and make room for all the new and exciting experiences and feelings that await you!

Are You Lost In Voice Mail Land?
Technology works with or against us. It can be a barrier between our prospects, customers and our value to them. Your invited to ponder several points that will clear the rubble from your communication path and open the channels for valiant customer care.

The Secret to Getting Press
Public relations enables you to build sales and get third-party credibility you simply can't purchase. But how do you get mentioned in the press? Find out as the secret is revealed!

How to use telemarketing to generate more leads
The phrase “cold calling” sends chills down the spines of many businesspeople. It’s often viewed as an intimidating, difficult, and boring process ... and that means it doesn’t get done as often as it should. However, outbound telemarketing campaigns can be a great way to reach a group of targeted prospects or customers to communicate a message, gather feedback, and determine a next step for the relationship.

Seven Ways to Enhance Client Relationships
All other things being equal, people do business with people they like. If your product and pricing are essentially the same as your competitor’s, the relationship will become the differentiator for your customer. To retain the business you must deliver on your promise of quality, service and price, while building a comfortable relationship with your customer. Here are seven ways to do it.

Sales Tip – Top 3 Selling Crimes: Bring in the Sales Crime Stoppers!
Salespeople need an edge in a down economy. You can get some edge from being a sales crime stopper and here are some sales crime stopping tips.

Sales Tip – Top 3 Ways Salespeople Can Underscore Serving Their Prospects!
One of the biggest problems salespeople have is not understanding who the selling ultimately helps: win, win, win sound familiar? There are long and short ways to underscore your prospect and with that, increase your sales.

7 Secrets To building your Internet Network Marketing Business
Building an Online Network Marketing Business is in many ways like building any online business. It takes certain skills, a level of motivation and probably most important of all, a willingness to learn and to be ‘coachable’.

Who Protects Your Greatest Vulnerability?
Build a foundation to stand upon ... so you have the liberty and security necessary to take risks and chase your dreams.

Dead Man Talking - Improve your listening skills and win more sales
If you are in sales and you just keep on talking instead of listening, you're a DEAD MAN! Learn how to improve your listening skills to build a better relationship with your clients and to increase your sales results.

6 Ways to Help Build Relationships using your Web site
Why talk about "relationships" and the Web? The answer is simple. One of the most powerful objectives you can keep in mind as you build and enhance your Web site is with relationship building in mind. Here are 6 ways

Retirement - How to make the most of it
Retirement is a time of huge change. It pays to plan for it in advance to gain the most from this new phase in our life. For some it can be a stressful time, and we might struggle with the lack of structure and changed pace of life. Being at home for longer periods, can create tensions in our relationships too. To avoid the retirement blues and look after your relationship as you transition to retirement, read and put into practice some of the 6 practical tips in this article.

A Zero Cost Technique to Triple Your Response
Ok, so you have your marketing message sorted now. You are speaking about what your prospects want. It is clear that you have a competitive advantage, and what you are offering presents great value. Yet still they hesitate! What will get them to make that call? Read this article to find out how to triple the number of prospects.

Mars and Venus Part II. "Moving towards" or "Moving away from".
All too often sales people assume that buyers use the same criteria to make a purchase as they would. This can lead to frustration and indeed some serious self doubt on a sales person's behalf. "They just don't get it", you may think to yourself. The reality is that not everyone thinks the same way. This is the first in a series of articles that looks at how you make choices, your customer makes choices, and how to realign your sales strategy, should they be different to you.

Trust: Where Is It Lacking In Your Relationships?
What does it take to be trusted? Ask 100 people and you'll get 100 answers. The reason is that the concept of trust is complex; and whilst we are often clear about whom we trust (and don't trust), we're often much less clear about why. Are you ready to learn about three very critical elements of trust? Learn how to foster trust in your own relationships.

Vendor Relationships
Leveraging your vendors can be a powerful way to help you compete with products, services, and financing.

Build A Huge Responsive List the Quick and Easy Way
Online business is all about building lists so that you can effectively market to them time and again for the sole purpose of increasing your own income. Firstly, you need to build a relationship and you can do this by applying these two very simple techniques.

Use Small Actions to Get Big Results
When it comes to creating relationships with other companies, take a long-term approach.

Desperation Isn't Referable
Nurture an abundance mentality instead of a scarcity mentality and you can have an unlimited supply of referrals.

Who’s Responsible? Lessons on the Law of Self-Determination
Although, many of us were originally taught to think otherwise, the reality is that no one creates in your reality and you don’t create anyone else’s reality. Each of us creates all of our own reality. It’s terrific news because it’s the foundation for intentionally creating the life we dream of having.

Hottest Small Business Opportunities For The Couple
There are all sorts of different classifications of businesses that help you decide which one will be perfect for you, but here's a unique one: business opportunities for the couple. If you're planning on starting a small business with your significant other, take a look at what are most likely some of your best options.

TAKE MY ‘WORD’ FOR IT
How do you convert dry facts or descriptions into compelling headlines or sentences?

Is cold calling right for my business?
Cold calling or telemarketing is seen, by a lot of business owners as a good way to market and promote their business. It’s one of those marketing methods that many people try some with great success and others with no results at all. When success occurs though, all business owners want to give it a go, thinking that success can occur for their business too.

Customer Value and Key Account Management
Key accounts clearly are important, but they should not consume all the attention or resources of your business unit or company. There has to be a balance, such that non-key accounts do not become neglected, but also receive an appropriate level of service.

How to Turn Your No-Sales into Cash by Turning Your "Features" into "Benefits."
If your advertising and marketing materials are touting your product's or service's "features" instead of its "benefits," you're probably missing out on sales opportunities. Learn how to turn your features into benefits, so you can turn those no-sales into cash.

Win More Sales by Sharing Instead of Selling
Sales professionals need to sell their products and services in order to earn a living. However, in today’s global driven marketplace, selling is a challenge because of the Internet to the current economy to all those negative belief about pushy sales folks. So what is a poor sales professional supposed to do?

GMROI – GMROF – GMROL : How To Make More With Less
You don’t necessarily have to increase your sales to improve your profits. What matters is how much each inventory rupee produces.

USP - Unique Selling Proposition
The term USP or Unique Selling Proposition is frequently used now a days. This is something which helps you stay ahead in the competitive world, something that makes you different from your competitors, be it a product or a service or both.

Renew Your Relationships this Spring: 4 Tips for Recapturing Love & Romance
There are many ways to recapture love and romance that might have cooled off over the long winter. Here are four ways to bring back that loving feeling.

Top 10 Tips for Aspiring Entrepreneurs
Maia Haag, Founder and President of I See Me!, Inc. offers her top 10 practical and insightful tips for people who are contemplating following their dream of starting a business.

Becoming a Rainmaker
The most effective approach to improving marketing skills is one that results in a fundamental shift in a person's perception of himself, others and the whole marketing process. Marketing is not simply a "numbers game." A person in any field of endeavor can learn to view marketing as an opportunity to do something positive for others, for their company and ultimately for themselves.

18 Practical Tips on Working With the Chinese
James Chan offers 18 practical tips on making friends and building better business relationships in China.

What Changes Are You Avoiding In Your Life?
Change is a constant in our lives and yet so often we resist it. As human beings, we are wired to avoid change because any type of change, even change for the better, involves a level of discomfort in some shape or form. Find out what comfort zones are and why it's good to step out of those zones and meet those changes head on.

Manage Up As Well As Down
Successfully managing your boss is vital to your career.

Working at Home in Canada - Are the Rules that Different?
Starting a business (which is what working at home is in most cases - a self-employed business) can be overwhelming all on its own, but when you throw in the fact that most of the information you read isn't written with you or your country in mind you might get a little discouraged before you even begin. There's no need to do so.

Turn On The Switch To Your Hidden Energy
Although many people acknowledge that we are born with an incredible, God-given power to do, have, or become whatever we want, no one has explained what it is or how to turn it on. We wonder, "Where is the switch to my hidden energy?" Your Core Desire is the switch. Having your heart fixed on your Core Desires is how your latent talents, gifts, and abilities are unleashed. Once you have a genuine, clear, and accurately defined Core Desire, you will expend all the necessary effort, for as long as it takes, to overcome any obstacle in your way in order to achieve it.

Five Online Home Business Ideas You Can Set Up Fast
We live in a society where we want things quickly. The Internet has helped in that regard. When it comes to making money everyone is in a hurry as well. So let's get down to it and talk about five of the fastest online home business ideas.

10 Daily Activities To Grow Your Online Business
Your business will not prosper if you are always shuffling paperwork around. You need to do something every day to make it happen. No matter what it is you must take action. There is no growth without action. Here are 10 daily activities that can easily help your business grow.

Marketing With Newsletters
If you aren't creating a monthly newsletter you are missing out on an opportunity to market to your list. Newsletters help establish your credibility, keep you top of mind for your prospects and allow you to make special offers to your list.

Who Should Your Sales Force Call On
It's not always obvious. If your company sells oil drilling rigs to oil companies, then your salespeople know who to call on. If your company sell luxury cars to wealthy people, you know where to find your prospects. But what if you sell products or services that could be sold to a much broader range of customers or clients? Who should your salespeople call on then?

Four Surprising Things That Will Grow Your Network (and Net-Worth) Now, from Tahl Raz?
In a recent Harvard Business Review blog post, leadership expert Dr. Cleve Stevens contrasts traditional leaders with transformational leaders - leaders for whom the employee-boss relationship is more than a money-for-labor transaction.

Close the Funnel, Open the Tunnel to Win More Sales
Do you think of your leads as going into a funnel? Now is the time to switch that paradigm an embrace the 21st century strategy of a tunnel that works with relationship selling and education based marketing far better.

How to Better Qualify Prospects to Increase Sales
Are you wasting a lot of time with tire kickers? Or have you thought that you truly did do your due diligence only to discover you missed something? Learn what actions you need to take to increase sales because you now know how to better qualify your prospects.

Where Is Your Life Calling For Courage?
Do you face each day with trepidation about what the unknown might hold? Peek inside for some valuable insight into day-to-day lessons that will help you experience the truly meaningful and rewarding life you have within you to live.

Entrepreneur Strategies: The Home-Work Connection
When you are stressed at work do you ever say "My home is my haven?" And when there is too much going on at home think "I can't wait to get to work so I don't have to think about the problems at home?" Work and home seem like different worlds. We say we want work/life balance as if they are opposite chunks of matter we can weigh on a scale. Thinking we can totally separate who we are at work from who we are at home is an illusion. Sure, there are some differences. Yet, the common denominator is that we bring ourselves to work, with all our patterned behavior, and we take that same self home. The other common denominator is that work and home are both relationship systems that are powerful influencers on us.

Buying Existing business vs Start Ups
As we begin the New Year, more people are looking to get into a business for themselves. I think it’s very important to understand the major differences between buying an existing business or starting from scratch. There are pro's and con's on both sides, and I want to emphasize on major differences to buyers and break down the process in hopes that buyers and sellers can make an educated decisions.

Some Say Romance is Dead
In these days of crisis, and with the word recession on many lips, tightening the belt and reassessing the budget, along with the daily demands of a home, kids work, the spouse or significant other gets put way, way down the list of priorities. The days of sitting gazing into each others eyes and sitting quietly are a luxury that usually gets buried under the washing and ironing!!!!!

Four Marketing Ideas for Client Retention
Your success as a business owner or executive will be largely determined by how many high quality clients you can attract and retain. It is getting more and more difficult to do this because clients have so many service providers to choose from and there are less dollars to go around in a down market. Following are four sales and marketing techniques that will help you retain your clients, even in a difficult economy like the one we're experiencing right now.

List Building And The Successful Entrepreneur
Obviously as an entrepreneur you want to be successful but what if I told you that you are probably letting your next customers walk on past your shop or your web site? What if you were also wasting a high proportion of your marketing dollars? Gives you a pause for thought doesn’t it?

Making Friends is Part of Leadership 101
The ability to connect with people in an honest, real way is one of the biggest attributes in leadership.

Spring is the Perfect Time for a Relationship Make-Over: 3 Simple tips to Brighten and Rejuvenate Your Love Life
Like our house or yard, our relationships also require a good Spring cleaning! All too often we let the familiarity of day-to-day life blind us to those small things that can have a big impact on the health and satisfaction of ourselves and our partners. Following these three simple steps will ensure you stay engaged and excited throughout the entire year.

Repent! The End Is Near!
As we come to the end of the year, we might wonder, 'What do I do when I come to the end of a midlife relationship?'

The Bad Customer – How Do You Recognize The Customer Who is Harming Your Business?
Why on earth would you want to fire a customer? Well if they cost you more money and effort than the profit you make from them – then it is time for you to remove them from your mailing lists and your marketing activities. Here’s 7 ways to recognize the bad customer.

Selling Strategies for the Scared
Selling – no matter how well your business is doing – selling will always be at the core of your business success. Mastering your sales skills ensures that those hard won potential customers are quickly changed to actual customers. Here are some selling skills to help you.

Double Your Sales and Subscribers with These Simple Tactics!
I often hear business women talk about how they need to get more visitors to their business, but they miss one other aspect that is just as, or even more important - conversion. Business women often miss out conversion, so you are not alone. Before we start telling you how to drive more visitors to your business, you need to make sure you are set up to convert them. So why is this so important?

Avoiding Pitfalls in Mentoring Relationships, Part II of III
Creating mentoring relationships

Make Exponential Profits With Backend Sales-Part 1
You've spent same advertising dollars to get your customer....now learn how to make sizzling profits by adding a backend offer!

Questions On Guest Loyalty
A readers question about guest loyalty. Is it really an effort to encourage guest loyalty or just a frequency scheme disguised as a loyalty program?

CONFIDENCE BOOSTERS
As you're probably only too aware, our confidence and self esteem are very variable - more of a wavy line than a straight line. Some days we feel we could conquer the world and other days we just want to hide under the duvet! We can miss opportunities because we allow fear and self doubt to get in the way. We undermine our confidence by taking things too personally and by trying to second guess what others think of us. I love the phrase: "What you think of me is none of my business!" And Eleanor Roosevelt famously said: "No-one can make you feel inferior without your permission."

SO WHAT’S ALL THIS ABOUT BRANDING?
I get a little nervous when the subject of "branding" comes up because it's often a case of over-sold and under-delivered.

Too Persistent?
Persistence is a good thing...until it becomes annoying.

How much information should you give away for free?
I’ve always been one for giving information away for free. Some people tell me I shouldn’t do it and other people say that it’s a great thing to do. I’ve tried both. Generally though, I find that giving something away for free does help my business.

Make Money Online With Affiliate Marketing
The rising trend is to make money online nowadays, and people who work online want the results to show fast. Affiliate marketing is probably the easiest way to make good money online. In affiliate marketing, you don't need to know much about product creation or website building. All you have to do is to advertise the product effectively.

Be the Person you Seek!
Your relationship with others mirrors the relationship you have with yourself!

5 Thoughts On Guest Loyalty
5 Thoughts On Guest Loyalty

The What and Why of Executive Coaching
Driving the trend for executive coaching is the business reality that good people are hard to find and harder to keep. With a constant need to stay competitive, companies are seeing coaching as a way to help valued employees develop swiftly in a rapidly changing business environment.

Dealing with Sales Objections: Resistance to Change
When I talk here about the ” Resistance to Change” objection I do not mean a competitor objection. I say this because it can sometimes prove very difficult to tell the difference. The prospect may choose to verbalise both objections by giving the salesperson very similar answers i.e. “I am happy with my current supplier”.

A Guide To Implementing E-Learning in Smaller Companies
How to save money with e-learning, get a virtual training department with high quality content that rivals what large organizations have with no technology investment required.

Create Subscribers With An Autoresponder Email Service
You have worked hard to get targeted traffic to your site so here we discuss how you can convert those visitors into subscribers by using an autoresponder email service to build your list.

Are These Two Words Sucking Your Sales Dry?
There are 2 little words that currently cause YOU a TON of stress. In fact, these words make grown women hum and haw, stutter and stammer, look at the ground, look at the sky, and clear their throat a lot. Here's what else happens.

Leverage Subject Matter Experts
Effective trainers must be able to break through the SME (Subject Matter Expert) wall to access the expert knowledge they hold. SMEs are the golden key to training and tools that deliver the results their clients expect. However, it often isn't easy to tap into all a SME has to offer.

The Subtleties of Selling Services and How to Recognize Them
My company has the opportunity to work with a number of outstanding sales professionals who are excellent at selling products. They understand the sales process and excel at getting customers to buy specific products and solutions. Many companies hire these superstars thinking they will help their services business skyrocket at the same pace the product sales would.

How Stuck Are You in Your Job?
How's your level of job satisfaction today? Pretty lousy? What practical steps are you taking to change it? to survive?

Effective Workplace Communication
Communication is an extremely powerful tool for success which, when effectively engaged in, creates strong relationships, harmonious working conditions and allows us to share the best of ourselves with students and colleagues.

TOP 10 TIPS FOR YOUR NEXT PRESENTATION
Make your next presentation your best one yet.

Empowerment - The Key To Developing Your Management Skills
It's amazing how many managers feel that they just cannot be absent from their workplace because they are 'irreplaceable'. By empowering their employees, much more is possible...

Increase Sales by Surveying Your Customers Current and Future Needs
Do you know what your customers’ current and future needs really are? Possibly, you are just meeting their existing needs, but have not taken the time to survey future needs. By not truly knowing your customer needs, how much business are you leaving on the table?

Increase Sales by Building a Comprehensive Profile for Each of Your Loyal Customers
Do you know your customers beyond the regular sales that they generate? Do you take the time to build a comprehensive profile for each of your customers? What would happen if you took such decisive action?

Smart Women Understand the BLT Factor
This article is about understanding that people will be more drawn to you both personally and professionally if they Believe you, Like you and Trust you. These attributes are just as important as the knowledge and expertise that you have about something. In order to have a successful life, you must be willing to create good, trusting and run relationships with the people around you and in your community. We all know it instantly when we meet someone that has the BLT Factor. When we leave this person, we feel great.

RELATIONSHIP SELLING – PART II (TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS)
Do not sell products, services or commodities. Just establish strong relationships with clients and achieve the coveted status of a trusted advisor. Then, your clients will elect to buy services and/or products from you. Never try to sell them. I know that this sounds deceptively simple. Almost as if one could just sit around and wait for things to happen. Establishing and maintaining trusted client relationships without trying to sell them anything, requires a lot of patience and a constant struggle against the temptation to start selling.

One Serious Sales Tool Everyone can Use to Increase Sales
No matter what business you’re in no matter what you’re selling there is one sales tool you must know how to take advantage of. That tool is networking. The problem is far too many business owners, entrepreneurs, and even sales professionals treat it like a social event rather than the serious sales tool it should be.

Get Leads Coming to You and Get Them to Act Now
Rather than dialing for dollars and getting your name out there what you need is a steady stream of highly qualified prospects reaching out to you. This is especially true now when business owners and consumers are guarding their wallets like Fort Knox. You aren’t going to get those wallets open doing what you’re doing now.

The Real Reason You Dwell on Your What-Ifs
When you are thinking of taking a step out into your next career move, or leaving a current relationship situation for one that is more right, you may dwell on “but what if ” “What ifs” keep you held back in your comfort zone. You probably experience this as feeling fear, but I think what stops you is not so much fear per se, but what is ‘underneath’ the fear.

Great Recovery The Key To Customer Problems
Much of what I have covered in past newsletters has been about how to get new customers. An equally important part of marketing is keeping the customers you have. Today I want to give you a simple but very practical 4 step process for dealing with customer problems.

How Not Having a Marketing Funnel Hurts Your Practice Without You Knowing It
Not having a marketing funnel in place is hurting your business in several ways – whether you are aware of it or not.

The 5 Major Assets of Having Your Business Online
Facing the revolution of the internet, companies are looking more than ever of having a web site and to conduct electronic commerce. The question is not really whether they should be on the Internet, but rather to understand why and especially how to monetize this investment. This article aims to narrow all the possibilities of the Internet and its major assets as part of a commercial activity.

Increase Sales Through That Third Contact and Beyond
Did you know that 25% of sales people make a second contact and then stop! Are you one of those sales professionals who gives up after the second and does not make a third effort to connect with that desirable prospect?

Struggling to "Be Here Now"?
Many of you know of the book, Be Here Now, the 1971 precursor to Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now. From the titles of these books, you get the idea that there is something to be gained from focusing on the present rather than being run by our painful past or anxiously awaiting the unknowable future. Easier said than done, perhaps.

Sales Pipeline Gives Sight to Blind Executives
In a struggling economy, executives of sales driven companies are able to see weaknesses and shortcomings on their sales forces that they were previously either blind to or chose to ignore when the orders were coming in. Now that these executives have sight, the question to be answered is can they invest the money to improve their revenue making machine?

Sounding the Emotional Depths
The emotions of midlife are characterized by confusion: not an emotion. When you dig down more deeply, you find the real root of the chaos — and the solution.

How Do I Find Clients For My Bookkeeping Business?
When you decide to run your own bookkeeping business, one of your biggest problems getting started is finding clients. If you are smart, you will have a few clients set up before you quit your regular job. But, where do you find these clients?

The Give and Take of Rejection
Why is it that one tiny word, "No", can evoke so much fear into the hearts and minds of so many? Part of everyday life as a leader/manager requires you to handle rejection day in and day out. How well do you cope? What can you do to more effectively handle rejection?

Help Your Way to More Sales
People buy because they want something they don’t have, they want to avoid something, or they want to solve a problem. They’re looking for someone to help them. Can you be the exact person to provide that help?

How to Build a Sales Relationship
There’s a natural progression that has to occur between you and your future clients. At the time of the first point of connection you were complete strangers. They didn’t know you, they didn’t know anything about you, and they didn’t have any reason to want to know anything about you.

Get Them to Act on Your Sales Offer
How do you get a complete stranger to buy from you? That’s one of the biggest challenges you face. Your ability to overcome that challenge greatly impacts your sales success.

Increase Sales by Becoming the Maytag Repairman of Your Niche Market
Have you ever considered that being the Maytag Repairman in sales is potentially a good thing? Learn why you may want to adopt this philosophy.

Overcoming Self-Sabotage
Overcoming self-sabotaging behaviors is critical if you want to start creating the relationship of your dreams…

How Often Should You Contact Your Prospects?
A lot of salespeople struggle with this question. You want to contact them with enough frequency to make sure they don’t forget you. Yet you don’t want them to get annoyed with you and think you’re a pest.

Sales Coaching Tip: Do Not Confuse Activity with Sales Results
Do you believe yourself to be very busy and yet your sales are still suffering? Possibly, you are confusing activity with results?

By Knowing Exactly Whom You Are Selling Will Increase Sales
Are you focusing your sales efforts and behaviors on the wrong people?

A Three Step Solution to the Selling Dilemma
Recently I began working with a new client, a brand new franchisee of an outstanding franchise system, who told me, "I'd like you to know something about me right away. I've attended sales trainings before and I just won't do the 'car salesman' thing!" "Well," I replied, "Thank goodness... because that's exactly the opposite of what I'll be coaching you to do." Today's business owners are really uncomfortable with the old 1950's way of selling. And so are today's customers. The trouble is,many of these same business owners and customers have never experienced a kinder way of selling. Which is where I step in, ever so gently.

Pipeline Management
Imagine a bath filled with water. Almost instantly the water begins to evaporate or can slowly seep through the plughole. Over a period of time the water level reduces and the temperature drops! The only way to keep the water level high and the water hot is to turn on the tap and continually refill it. Equally, you want to keep your prospects ‘on the boil’ by actions that continuously warm up and consolidate your relationship with them. You certainly don’t want all your efforts to go down the drain!

Post Sale Follow Up
The first sale isn't the end of the sales process but the beginning of the next sales cycle. What you do after you've made the first sale determines whether you get the next one or any referrals.

Celebrity Branding You: Tweeting … and Why it’s Not Just for the Birds
You’ve probably heard the buzz-terms “social media” and “social networking” more times than you care to count; although if you’re like most people, you still haven’t figured out what it means or how you can use it to increase your celebrity status, and, most importantly, your profits.

Increase Sales by Getting Strangers Coming to You
When you were little weren’t you told, “Don’t talk to strangers?” Of course you were. The adults around you told you this to protect you from harm.

How Do You Find the Right People to Increase Sales?
You know you need to find the right people. The right people are people who are more likely to buy what you have to offer than others. The right people are people you have a way to connect with and open a conversation.

Get Yourself a Mentor
Learning from a role model - someone who's trodden the path before - is enormously valuable. Here's how to go about finding a mentor.

Sales Training For Service Businesses - Why Should I Use You? - Part 3 of 3
Sales Training is not always what is required for many service companies. Why should some one use you?

Tricks of the Trade Show
18 "tricks of the trade show" to help you capitalize on the best sales contact opportunity and the most fun time that a salesperson can have in growing their business.

How to Be a Sales Mentor
The role of a sales mentor can be very rewarding. Here are five concepts to make sure you are clear on before you begin the relationship.

Chapter 2 from The Secret of Communication - What Is The Secret?
Introducing the Seven Simple Steps to Solid Success!

Good Customer Service Alone Doesn't Win Referrals
Don't wait around for your excellent service to pay off. Instead, build a network for word-of-mouth marketing.

Evaluating the franchisor
We regularly get asked “is this is a good franchise?”, and though we cannot give feedback on specific franchises, we can help you ask the right questions. As you are entering a two-way relationship, it is vital that you have confidence in the franchisor you choose, and so you must ask questions about their business and structure of the organisation at the early stages.

Marketing With Classified Ads-What It Takes To Make Them Work
Not all ezines are created equal; some of them have poor formatting and lack luster articles, and others are a breath of fresh. But nearly all ezines, good or bad, have classified ads.

Thats What Makes Media Magic
You never know who is going to see or read a particular story, and if you don't do the interviews and utilize your press, you never will.

The 4 Keys to Referral Success
In summary, the four keys to referral success are to work with 12 or more centers of influence, implement a systematic way to stay in touch, differentiate yourself from everyone else, and build a connection with each center of influence.

Forget Spring HOUSE Cleaning Clean Your Life
Using the metaphor of "spring cleaning" Eileen McDargh guides you through the process of cleaning your life.

Tips for Effectively Communicating and Influencing Up
Skillful communications is the foundation builder for effectively influencing everyone we encounter. One such key relationship to highlight is the one with our manager - effectively communicating and influencing up requires careful planning and execution. This is a critical dynamic that is crucial to be an effective leader and impact all levels of an organization and/or all key stakeholders. Whether you work in a service, technology or sales driven organization, our ability to influence is vital to our success. The following tips are strategies for effectively communicating and influencing up, however, could be applied to all levels both internal and/or external to your organization.

Luman's Law of Change
“If you’re not exploiting change, it’s exploiting you.” –James R. Lucas Steve Forbes says: "Jim Lucas is an internationally recognized authority on leadership and organizational life…You can take what he says to the bank – both figuratively and literally."

Top 10 Tips To Having A Successful Joint Venture
A joint venture is usually a business partnership that is between at least two parties in order to achieve profit and merit working together. These parties share in the risks, help to compliment each other, and even help make up for the other's weaknesses.

Sales Digging In Progress: Get Prospects to Listen to You
Salespeople often wonder, “What can I say in an introduction to get a prospect to listen more to me?” Dogs are masters with getting their masters to listen. Here are two dog lessons to learn how to introduce yourself to get what you want.

Balancing Working at Home with Your Husband
Working at home can provide you with many benefits. However, balancing your life working at home with your husband is not always going to be an easy task. Sure, you may be home all the time, but being home doesn't equal quality time with your husband.

Eight Steps to Nailing a Sales Call
If you’re in business for yourself, you’re probably pretty excited when a prospect calls you, instead of the other way around. The only downside is if you aren’t prepared ahead of time with what to say. Here’s what to do with that all-important call.

Just Say "No!"
Did you know that saying "No" can actually be doing a favor for the person you are talking to? Really -- it can!! It is also something that is really hard for overachievers to do. And that is what we are right? As entrepreneurs we take on all kinds of things, but sometimes they are not the right things for the time.

Use Email Marketing To Keep Customers Buzzing About Your Business
Email marketing can be used as an effective tool for communicating with customers. Its is an effective medium of communication to boost sales by ensuring that your customers constantly remember you.

Are You Mentor Material
Typically, there are three things every good mentor should have: time, patience, and a genuine desire to help another person succeed without expecting anything in return. If you have an abundance of those things, then being a mentor can be a highly rewarding experience. If not, please see the rubber plant reference

The Power of Positive New Employee Inductions
When a new staff member starts with your company, they are joining a dream, a hope of a great future and genuinely want to do the best they can for your company. How you treat the employee on their first day as part of their employee induction sets your relationship with them for the entire period they are with you.

How To Make Your Dream List A Reality
How much would you be willing to pay for a list of people who need what you have — and know it — and who are so close to being ready to buy that they've already made the effort to contact you? Wouldn't that be worth a lot of money? Or maybe even invaluable? Well, you can have that list, for free. Here's how.

10 Steps to Getting More Referrals
At my workshop, web cast or tele-class I have people tell me their business comes from word-of-mouth marketing. Wouldn’t it be great to have even more referrals coming your way? Just think of never having to make an outbound cold call, or work endlessly at designing your next winning marketing piece. More often than not, we merely need to create a communication plan of action to simply generate endless referrals.

Writing Tips and Articles rules:
Always write like you talk. Pretend you are talking to a close friend. Do not 7use words that you need to look for in the dictionary. Use your everyday language, and your best personality will come through.This allows your personality to come through in your articles.This will be the first step in building a relationship with your readers

I’m Sending You on a Mission
Have you been participating in my “Mini Mission Mondays” on Facebook and Twitter? These are bite-sized outreach ideas that encourage you to interact with your business-critical network on a regular basis. Missions are the foundation of Relationship Masters Academy.

Using Articles in Marketing For Small Business
Here’s a quick business-marketing lesson. In business you spend a lot of time building your brand to let people know you exist and to attract clients to you. This is done via “push strategies” where you are pushing your brand into their awareness – such as advertising/direct mail/yellow pages and “pull strategies”. Pull strategies are gentler. It’s where you attract people to you ... because they want something they know you have or you can offer them.

A Message from Your Empty Nest
An empty nest exposes the cracks and wrinkles in a relationship like nothing else. Midlife presents an opportunity to move your primary relationship into a whole new dimension.

Are we truly listening to our clients?
Top sales professionals have mastered the aret of qualifying their clients. It is through this process that they can quickly determine need and close the sale or move on. Your client has all of the information you need to close. The question is, Will you be listening?

How to Find the Compelling Reasons Behind Seth Godin's Intangibles
Seth Godin's recent column on Intangibles was great. As a matter of fact, I haven't disagreed in more than two years with anything he has written about selling. Today he provided many examples - great examples - of how your intangibles create value. This article explains how your salespeople can uncover these - and other - reasons why prospects would pay more to do business with you.

Five Questions to Evaluate Employee Engagement
When I think of employee engagement, I think about organizational commitment, empowerment, communication, and results! I think about employees who strive to "be the brand!" The following is a list of five questions to evaluate employee engagement.

A Day In The Life Of Aspray Property Services Franchise
As one gets closer and closer to making a decision to purchase a franchise or start their own small business, there begins to be an uneasiness that comes with not knowing what it will actually look like in day-to-day operations once the business is up and running. While you can begin to see the things that will need to be done overall according to your business plan, your work load, your tasks and assignments that are required to meet the needs of your franchisor, there is always that question when starting the first day of self-employment when no one is there to tell you what to do of; what do I do now?

More Than Muddling Through
Midlife crisis is the 'default' condition: the way things will happen if you do nothing at all. Want to avoid it? You can!

Sales Skills For Service Professionals Part 1
The first of three skills every professional or sales professional needs to hone is the ability to ask provocative questions.

More Questions, Better Questions
If you want more clients to say "yes," try asking more questions. Clients love to buy, they just hate to be sold.

How to make leaflets work for you
I meet several small business owners who use leaflets as a way of promoting their business. But, one of the biggest complaints with this method is that it hasn’t worked. Whenever, someone tells me this though, my question back to them is “how do you know?”

Why Are You Choosing That?!
“I’m so exhausted. I could really use a cup of coffee,” said Tim over the phone. “So, have one.” I said. “I gave it up almost a year ago.” “Why?” “I don’t know. I guess I looked at it as a bad habit. I actually love coffee.”

Words That Evoke Resistance
It has come to my attention, more than once, that most people state their intentions with somewhat of an "I hope this happens" kind of feeling behind their words. When I am asking a client what their intention is (or said another way, "What is the desired outcome?"), I'm really wanting to know what they are committed to having happen. I do not want them to wonder if it will or won't happen, I want them to expect it to happen.

Perspectives: Your Relationship With Money
If you know you were born to be successful, rich and fulfilled ... If you have an inkling of wanting more from your money ...

Money Is Your Servant
Money issues seem to be an ongoing challenge for many of us. We tend to try to control it, as if it were a beast. We put boundaries, rules, limitations, and goals in place to make us feel like we're being "good" and doing it "right."

What's Your Money Style?
We all have a different style when it comes to our relationship with money. I'm not talking about your fears or stories about money. Your fears are a whole other box of worms. When I refer to style, I mean how you would relate to money if you had never been influenced by another persons style or fears.

Partnering for Profit
Doing almost anything, besides meditating, is easier when you have two or more of the right people. So, why do most people invest by themselves or just with their significant other? They don't know how it easy it can be.

Your Clients Are Waiting For You!
Do fears about marketing get in the way of letting your market know about you and therefore become a barrier to having paying clients? Use these three steps to continually reframe your thinking about marketing over the next 90 days. Your new more powerful mindset will make your marketing more effective and fun!

YOUR FEES ARE TOO HIGH STEPS TO HANDLING OBJECTIONS THAT WILL GET YOU CLOSER TO THE SALE
By John Doerr If you really do put a small value upon yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price. - Anonymous How many of us, as professional service providers, have heard from prospects, "your fees are too high," "someone else will do it for less," or "I don't see why I have to pay all that money just to have you do an audit, write a brief, create a marketing plan, etc?" And, more important, how many of us have been able to resist the urge to simply lower our fees to get the work?

Sales Big Picture - Top Salespeople Know Their Personal Best Time and How to Energize
Salespeople can whine, “I don’t have enough time to write a thank you note all the time.” “This prospect is so demanding.” “So many customers and things to do in so little time.” There are at least three strategic pieces to increase both understanding and actions in the buying and selling process, with time and energy management being as individual to each salesperson as a car is to its owner. It’s the strategy that maintains the whole performance.

Sales Big Picture - Top Salespeople Combine the Art and the Skill
One of the frequent complaints of salespeople is the delay of a prospect’s decision. You can be highly effective in sales attraction, and find a graveyard for your efforts because of lacking the art and skills of sales effectiveness. Top salespeople are always, regularly and even on their own dollar, increasing their sales effectiveness.

Networking explained
Networking is a great benefit for your business and can provide support. It can also be a fun tool to use and it's not as difficult as you may think!

4 Secrets to Successful Cold Calling
In the world of cold calling, there can be a lot of negativity. It’s not easy to talk to someone you haven’t met – especially when you experience rejection so much of the time. Most people who sell really dislike cold calling, and I don’t blame them.

Sales or Life in a Major or Minor Whirlwind?
Selling and life are as unpredictable as a whirlwind. Regardless of the type of customer (size and type of whirlwind), time to a decision (when a whirlwind happens) or direction the sale takes (the journey and dissipation of a whirlwind), you can take actions to move yourself forward to attract more customers.

Affirm Success
What’s on your goal list? Working with ideal clients, mastering that new software or taking a dream vacation? Use affirmations to lead the way. Affirmations are powerful statements to remind us of our magnificent potential, despite what others may say or when our own ego plants that seed of doubt. Some people resist using affirmations. They think it’s too simplistic or that the practice is out of integrity because they are stating something that may not be true yet. Since all reality begins in thought form, affirming what you want to be true is the fastest way to get there.

Should you advertise?
A question I’m often asked by small business owners is whether they should advertise their products and services. My standard answer to this question is usually no and there are several reasons