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What Is Emotional Dependency?
Are you emotionally dependent? Use this checklist to find out, and discover how you can attain emotional freedom.
Its A Shame That You’re Not Making Good Money --- When Regular People Are Doing It So Easily
You’re probably asking yourself, “What is it that separates those that are successful and those that are not?” You’re not alone. Many people are asking themselves this very question every day, especially now with the drastic changes in our economy. Seeking out a “Plan B” is now the main priority of many individuals that are now jobless, on the verge of losing their job, in foreclosure, and just afraid of how this economy will impact them in some way. But still, there are those that are flourishing in their financial status. What is it that they are doing?

Powerful Communication: Apology Do’s and Don’ts
Article explaining the importance of the appropriate delivery of an apology and tips on what to do and what not to do when it comes to apologizing
Lesson #1: Learn For Life
“If a man empties his purse into his head, no man can take it away from him,” said Franklin. “An investment in knowledge always pays the best interest.”

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Lesson #5: Stop Doing What is Not Working
When Fields opened up her very first store, she was excited. She had finally created a solid business plan and found a banker that believed in her. On the store’s first day of business, Fields’ husband questioned her about her long-term financial objectives, but Fields was so excited to finally be in business, she dismissed him. “Oh my gosh, Randy,” she told him. “You know, I’ve got an annual goal. I’ve got monthly plans. But today I just want to get started. I just want to open up the store.”

The Abundant Marketing Mindset
It seems like every time I conduct a marketing workshop for small business owners about half the crowd admits that they don't really like marketing - it makes them feel like they are self-promoting. This mindset is particularly common among professional services providers. (Yes, doctors, lawyers, and accountants, I'm talking about you.)
I can’t help but wonder if I were born in any other time…
…how different my life would be today. If you were to ask the very same question, I am sure you would discover some remarkably interesting answers.
Ignore your critics
If you find 100 comments on a blog post or 100 reviews of a new book or 100 tweets about you...

Rising Fom Disappointment
You don’t know what it meant until you have had a high expectation on the outcome of, say, a project, a result or even a journey. You experienced a feeling of joy; you are elated and have even started dreaming of how to spend a hard won holiday. You dreamt of a scented embrace from your love, you saw your kids running to meet and embrace you. And ... suddenly it all came crashing down.

Money and Marketing: 4 Business Model Blunders to Avoid
Unpredictable, up-and-down cash flow is frustrating to deal with. By redesigning your business model so that every offer flows effortlessly into the next, you’ll not only even out your income, you’ll dramatically increase it as well.
How do the Top 100 Global Franchises rate compared to the top online home business?
The Top 100 franchises are rated for many factors that might surprise you. You can see how they rate for you, and whether the top online business model is worth exploring before you buy a franchise.

How to Ruin Your Business Reputation
No matter how desperate for customers you are, you must get that under control. People will sense desperation and either run from you or try and take advantage of you. Neither is all that good for you. So what can you do? Here are 3 tips to help you stay strong no matter what's going on in your business.

The Crazymaking Trap: Proving Your Worth Over and Over
Are you stuck in a trap trying over and over to prove your worth? Are you stuck making another person your Higher Power? You CAN get out of this crazymaking trap!
Forgiving yourself allows you to forgive others.
Being humans we have all done things we are not proud of. As a direct result of this we feel shame, stupidity and profoundly sorrowful. We don't know how to get pass this point. We feel there is no one to share this information with because there would be disappointment. That disappointment is not bearable. How to get pass this point in life?

Life can be good after getting laid off
You received a pink slip today. After your recover from shock, you feel shame and embarrassment. You are in denial and disbelief. You feel abandoned and overwhelmed and do not want to share this information with loved ones. You rush to the safety of home and have more shameful feelings. You want to crawl in a hole and cover yourself. You finally share the news with your family and they are surprised and disappointed, as well.

The University of Sales
Is everybody on your sales team as dedicated as you are to continuously augmenting and upgrading personal knowledge and skills? There's no question that it's absolutely essential ...unless of course all your competitors are lazy and stupid.
Common Sales Mistakes Part 1
As markets tighten I thought we could reflect on some lessons learnt in the past by highly experienced, successful sales people. The following lessons are from some of the participants of my ‘Sell like a woman' research project and make for interesting reading in ‘what not to do' in sales. Here is the 1st part of a 3 part series on common sales mistakes.
Email Business Communication Is Convenient, But Still Demands Carefully Honed Writing Skills
Email has changed business communication drastically, putting pressure on nearly all of us to improve our writing skills. Taking advantage of its speed and convenience without paying proper respect to the needs of effective communcation can leave a harmful impression of you and your nonprofit, agency or company. Any business writing training should take account of certain rules, such as the need to slow down and edit yourself before hitting the "send" button. Rush that move, and your professional reputation could take a beating.

HOLDING ONTO YOUR IDENTITY IN FINANCIAL CRISIS
In my speaking engagements lately, I’ve been talking to people about how to separate emotion from their finances entirely, and especially how to let go of the negative emotions - shame, fear, anxiety, blame and stress - that often come with debt.
Contractor vs. Consultant
Consultant, Contractor… is there a difference? Sometimes there isn’t, sometimes the same person can be both, even on the same engagement. However, I define the difference this way:
Another Day, Another Rip Off?
Why do people think they can swipe Internet content and use it - without credit or permission - on their websites or blogs? Is there no ownership of intellectual content online - or no shame?
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How to Stop Order-Taking & Satisfy Customers by Selling What They Need

Three Ways to Start a Conversation and Finish with a Sale
Ditch your elevator pitch. Zap your infomercial. And whatever you do, keep your carefully worded, painstakingly developed, positioning statement to yourself.
Effects of Bankruptcy - Not the American Dream
Anyone who has ever gone through the emotional pain and stress associated with bankruptcy will tell you that bankruptcy was not something they “planned” or considered to be a part of their future plans.
Personal Accountability
This Article explores the significance that personal accountability plays in the workplace. What becomes apparent to the reader are the people within their organisations who completely lack this skill and the repercussions of that. Conversely the benefits of those who excel at this skill is explored and identified. This is a must see for any leader of any team who wishes to see top performance within their workplace.

Is Your Business Still Heading Towards The Goals You Set At The Start?
Every business owner needs to step back a little every so often and critically look at their business; the way it performs; the service it offers; the prices charged and ensure it is still running directly towards the ultimate goals that were in your head when you first set it up. When did you last check yours?
Turning Obligation into Celebration
The holidays are upon us, and, especially during the midlife transition, they can be overwhelmingly stressful. Can you redefine what they're about to keep your sanity?
Your Life in the Balance
Do you feel that you're constantly being accused and judged? Is your life and self-esteem in someone else's hands? Is there something positive you can do about it?
There Are No Dumb Business Questions Not
I've gotten a few head-scratchers in response to this column. You know who you are, but don't worry, your secret is safe with me. I have a confession to make. Writing an advice column, whether it be advice for love or money or business, is often hard to do with a straight face. Occasionally a question comes over the digital transom that just makes me go, "Huh?"
Coaching Tip: Stop “Shoulding” Yourself
How often do you begin statements inside your head or out loud that begin with words like: I know I - should, shouldn’t, need to, have to, supposed to…? These words create constriction and the illusion that you have a lack of choice. The ability to have choice and make our own decisions is an important freedom; a part of having free will and spiritual growth. Without the freedom to make choices we can feel powerless and hopeless.

Start Making Money Online From Home
It certainly is a great feeling when you start making money online working from home on the computer, although it does require work. More and more people these days are looking for ways to start making money online from the comfort of their own home.
Reality Check
Are you one of those people who has been listening to me and others, like Robert Kiyosaki, about generating passive income and investing for a lifetime of prosperity? Maybe you've been wanting to find the "thing" or deal that will bring you retirement now. Or maybe you're just downright sick of having barely enough cash flow and find yourself saying you'll do or buy something once you get more money.

"I Don't Deserve to be Loved"
If you believe that you don't deserve to be loved, this article is for you.
Could You Increase Your Sales Watching a Guy Selling Cookware at a County Fair?
Even though there are big differences between selling products and selling a service when someone does a superior job selling there are lessons to be learned. When you watch a top producer selling anything there are tremendous lessons to be learned from the obvious to the subtle nuances.
5 Not So Obvious Business Plan Mistakes to Avoid
Everyone knows they need one. Everyone plans on writing one, eventually. But not everyone does it. Why? Because it’s so easy to put off and it’s such a chore. I’m talking about writing a business plan. Many business owners put more effort into planning their vacations than they put into planning their businesses. This is a shame because an entrepreneur with a business plan is much more likely to succeed than one without a plan.
Pose and Smile – You Are On The Apprentice
Be warned – this posting reveals who has been ‘fired’ from the forth episode and the rest of the post is only my observation and opinion based upon 60 minutes of edited TV, nothing more.
Do You Chase When Someone Withdraws?
Do you find yourself chasing after someone when he or she withdraws from you? How do you feel when you do this, and what is generally the result?
Full RSS or Summary Feed
I'm not the first one to chime in on this topic, mostly because I've gone both ways and I can make pretty valid arguments from either side. But I've finally settled it in my mind which is "best". Full RSS feeds are better than summary feeds. Why?

Living in the Moment
Through life experience, education and awareness, I have observed three kinds of people. Those who dwell in the past, those who thrive in the moment and those who prepare for the future.

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WHY DOESN\'T THE EDITOR LIKE YOUR NEWS RELEASES?
Basics aren't difficult in developing a solid, news worthy news release. It is a shame most people waste their opportunities. This article gives you step-by-step guidelines to doing it right...including distribution.
How the perfect marketing plan would work
Depending upon who you ask a marketing plan is either a necessary evil or tremendous waste of time. - That’s such a shame, but I think I’ve finally come to understand why this is.
Personal Branding - Do Your Marketing Materials Make Your Spine Tingle?
Do your small business marketing materials, and the personal brand image you project make your spine tingle? Or, do they look like your eight year-old child designed them? If any of them give you shame, they're your “marketing package blunders”. Find out why you need to fix them, and get tips how. If you do, you’ll sell more of your products and services!
Living a Life of Regret
Remorse, regret, guilt, and shame are all powerful emotions that can cripple men and women in their midlife transition. One very simple phrase can set you free.
Your 5 Day Marketing Plan
Unfortunately, since many small business owners don't consider marketing as a core business activity (what a shame), it's often the task that gets set aside when time is crunched. But by taking just a few minutes to plan ahead, your future marketing activities can go much smoother.
Another Day, Another Rip Off?
Why do people think they can swipe Internet content and use it - without credit or permission - on their websites or blogs? Is there no ownership of intellectual content online - or no shame?
HOLDING ONTO YOUR IDENTITY IN FINANCIAL CRISIS
In my speaking engagements lately, I’ve been talking to people about how to separate emotion from their finances entirely, and especially how to let go of the negative emotions - shame, fear, anxiety, blame and stress - that often come with debt.
Shame is the Secret Saboteur of Success
Shame is the painful belief that a person is defective by their very existence, and is the secret weapon of sabotage against personal success. Essentially, shamed is a response that results from our parents and teachers helping us learn how to be a part of society, which we very early on tend to absorb into our energy bodies at a core level. Over time, people affected by shame make compromised decisions from a diminished view of themselves which affects their productivity, relationships and overall life wealth.

Stop playing peekaboo and your ideal clients will hire you: 3 steps are all you need
Did you know that when entrepreneurs market their businesses, they hide aspects of themselves that they feel ashamed of? This shame unfortunately becomes the blind spot to what could be more clients, money and meaning flowing into these entrepreneurs’ lives. This article teaches you the 3 steps you need to shoo that shame away and attract the abundance that is already on its way to you.
Take Care Of Your Business, III
Lately, it's been all-the-fashion to talk about the "evils" of competition. Especially in America, where current election-year rhetoric features quite a bit of hot air about "fairness," "corporations are not people," and "shame on The One Percent," leaders play to the inner "Victim" of their constituents by claiming the government can make sure everyone gets their fair share of life's bounty....
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